Wedding Valery Meladze and Albina Janabaeva: Whether the fairy tale ended with a happy ending. Valery Meladze published a family photo from Albina Janabaeva
Valery Meladze and Albina Dzhanabaeva
Fans of 38-year-old Albina Janabaeva and 51-year-old Valery Meladze know perfectly well that the couple prefers to hide their relationship from the public. Apparently, the artists begin to change their opinion on this matter, because more and more often their joint photos appear on the network. At the end of April, Albina Dzhanabaeva for the first time a joint photo with his wife Valery Meladze in his Instagram. At that picture, the couple was preparing dinner in the restaurant "Brighton". And the other day, another picture of Albina and Valeria appeared - this time in the photoblog of the Meladze brothers in Instagram.
Now Valery Meladze is toured in Russia and neighboring abroad within the framework of the anniversary tour. It seems that Albina decided to accompany the spouse during the entire tour. Family photography It was made after the artist's speech in one of Valery's concert cities - Tbilisi. Judging by the picture, the couple decided to celebrate the successful speech of the singer on the stage of the Tbilisi Palace of Sports. Later, the artist also performed in his hometown - Batumi.
Meladze and Dzhanabaeva began to meet in 2003. At that time, the singer was married, but only in 2011, having lived with the first wife, therefore, almost 20 years old. From the first marriage, the artist remained three daughters. New beloved gave birth to Valery two more -
On the eve of the registry office on December 18, Starkhit met with Dmitry Kulakovy, who saw more star celebrations than anyone. He worked all his life as a driver and was in parallel, he was fond of pigeons - a pensioner more than a hundred birds, he travels to them on his own pigeon to feed and serve in cells. The spouse and children of Kulakova, his hobby approve, like the fact that the last ten years five days a week he spends from the Kutuzov registry office - offers newlyweds to launch a couple of snow-white birds into the sky.
Among his clients - Ketie Topuria and her husband Lion Gayhman, Lera Kudryavtseva with Igor Makarov, Ekaterina Volkova and Andrei Karpov, Gennady Zyuganov and others.
Run, Valera, Run!
Most of all Kulakovo remembered resident Comedy. Club Garik Harlamov, who was combined with a marriage with actress Christina Asmus in August 2013.
"And he, and his bride were respectful, turned to me on you, smiled a lot," says Dmitry Ivanovich. - offered them pigeons, Garik agreed, asked how much it would cost. I replied that 2500 is a standard fee for my services, and he handed me money. I did not recalculate, but I felt that there was more in the palm than. Already later I saw that Garik gave two times more - so far for it good word I remember. After all, this work is a good increase in a pension that I have only 15 thousand, there is not enough birds and vaccinations. "
With a smile, the pigeon remembers the wedding of the TV presenter of Kudryavtseva with a hockey player Igor Makarov.
"As soon as the organizer of the celebration saw me, immediately screamed:" No pigeons! " - tells Dmitry Ivanovich. - Well there is no way. I got up aside and watching the ceremony. Here comes to me a man. I extended my hand: "Hello, I'm Sergey, Father Groom. Do not listen to anyone, we must have pigeons! " He paid, and after the newly-made spouses came out of the registry office, I gave him birds to give them to young. Lera was delighted - the pigeons flew in one direction, she walked into his hands, kissed her husband. "
But the singer Valery Meladze Dmitry Ivanovich himself, not wanting, scared.
"Two years ago at their celebration with Albina Janabaeva almost there were almost no guests, only a couple-triple friends," the pigeon continues. "It was clear that Meladze did not want to attract attention to himself - he entered the building, looking around. I decided not to approach him and just watched. Valery looked at me disapprovingly, while something spoke to friends. And after the painting, they immediately went to the exit, then Valery accelerated the move at all, ran to the car, holding an albin by his hand. I did not understand anything ... "What is it with him?" - I ask for the passage workers. It turned out that Valery decided that I was a photographer, I stand here for exclusive pictures from his wedding. "
People of another level
The poverty notes that the stars with whom he had to communicate - people are brave. "Everyone without fright took birds in hand," Dmitry Ivanovich shared. - And right, what to be afraid! I have been trained, besides, I do not feed them before going to the registry office. For 10 years of work only one day a dove on wedding Dress Moved. But this is not dangerous - these birds have a special litter, on it with a clutch with a water, he will rolling down. "
Among the clients of Dmitry Ivanovich not only the stars of film and pop. He had to work with politicians. On the eve of Victory Day in 2013, Kulakovo called the representative of Gennady Zyuganov.
"He asked May 9 at the Lubyanskaya Square to deliver 68 white pigeons to the Chairman of the Council of the Communist Party of the Communist Party of the Communist Party of the Communist Party 68. That's exactly what I did. I did not take money with politics - in honor of the Great Holiday. And the pigeon, which in the hands of Zyuganov held, I still live - it is considered an elite. "
But not all celebrities are kindly react to Kulakov's offer to use its services. For example, Marat Basharov on May 31, 2014 - on the day of marriage with the actress Catherine Arkharov - considered "pigeon service" by obsessive. "This was told about the girls-saleswoman from the neighboring store," recalls Dmitry Ivanovich. "There is no on the Internet on the Internet, and they read in social networks that Basharov wrote in his blog - they say, some uncle came, he had 15 pigeons with him, he tried to sell them very much. Where did I get them from? I always stand with two ... and I don't impose my birds to anyone - I will offer it once. "
Also remembered the pigeon's case at the wedding of the scandalous singer of Prokhor Shalyapin and businesswoman Larisa Copenkina.
She sought him more than ten years, he rushed between two families and could not make a decision. Today, "Lady Mail.Ru" tells about the love of singer Valery Meladze to the "redhead" from "VIA GRA".
Meladze and group " VIA Gra»
Love affair at work
For a long time, Valeria Meladze considered an exemplary family man: the artist properly appeared with Irina's wife secular events, brought up three daughters and told reporters how much loves his family.
Meladze met the future spouse in student years. Valery recognized: For a long time, the girl did not pay attention to him, and the future singer himself was worried that he looks too poor - at that time he studied at the Faculty of Radio Engineering and lived in a hostel. However, as a result, a purposeful young man has achieved the location of his beloved and put on her finger wedding ring. It happened in 1989.
Meladze lived in harmony and harmony until the same time when the family moved to Moscow from Nikolaev and the popularity came to Valery. Due to the large amount of work, a hardworking singer could not pay a lot of time as before. In addition, women began to pay attention to the "status" meladze - colleagues in the workshop.
The fact that the husband takes the show-business, Irina did not rather like. The feelings of Meladze to his wife were faded, but his career was in the mountain. One day, a young and unknown performer Albin Janabaeva came to the place of the back vocalist, the back vocalist appeared.
Roman Valeria and his spouse Irina rose still in student years
Two years after the start of working with Meladze, the girl goes to maternity leave. Albina is not married young manWith which the singer would appear in public, no. The press and fans started talking about the fact that the father of the child could be the "head" of Albina, Valery Meladze. After the birth of the son, the gossip was even more: a newborn baby young mother called bones - like Brother Valeria Meladze, with whom the singer was always in more than warm relationships.
Immediately after the birth of the child, Janabaev invites you to sing in the VIA Gra group. And here - the coincidence! One of the producers of the team - Konstantin Meladze. There is also practically no doubt: Albina Dzhanabaeva - Valery Meladze's mistress. However, this fact did not confirm the performers themselves, no wife Valery Irina.
He, she and his wife
Meladze will decide to confess the paternity only in 2009: "Yes, I have a son. About this my wife learned from me for a long time. And in the fact that this is my son, I do not have any doubt. In the column "Father" in the birth certificate he is worth my name. " By this time, the artist no longer lives with the official spouse, but it is not in a hurry to file a divorce and move to Albin and a small costha.
The fact that in the life of Meladze is not all calm, said, apparently, and his work. In the composition "parallel", for example, Valery sang, as fans think, it is about the choice of a woman: "And two lives parallel to me in me."
Meladze's wife at that time about the treason of her husband, as already mentioned, knew for a long time. Irina said that this situation is already experienced and does not dream in the nightmares. The woman confessed that long and scrupulously analyzed, "what's wrong with it". The main outputWho came to her, she allowed himself to completely dissolve in the family and a loved one, forgetting about the world around. "I am grateful to my husband for what happened to me. Otherwise, internally, I would never have become different. I would not understand that there is a life outside the family, "Irina declared.
However, Valery's spouse sought to save the family with all their might and believed that they had a bright future with Meladze, and Albin Dzhanabaeva was not serious and briefly. Yes, and the singer himself gave rise to the way: he seemed to not talk about divorce and paid a lot of time to three daughters, although he lived separately from the family. True, the lack of attempts to submit the artist himself justified the fact that such a seal does not play any role if the relationship happened in the relationship.
Valery with wife Irina and one of the daughters
As a result, because of the faith of Irina to the future and indifference of Valery to the formalities, the wicked process was delayed, more than five years. All this time, Valery, of course, did not see with his wife, and his pictures with Albina were increasingly leaking on the pages of "yellow" newspapers and magazines. In 2014, when it became clear that everything was really over, Irina showed rigidity. The woman insisted on the section of the property and demanded alimony for children.
The woman's tone replaced: she no longer believed in love until the end of the days: "All this is disgusting. I do not carry false and hypocrisy. I have an allergy to lie and dirt that surrounds me long years" After almost twenty years of marriage, last years which were by the nightmare, Valery and Irina will finally diverge. This time is officially - in court and with lawyers.
New life
All this time, Albina Dzhanabaeva calmly endured that her beloved man rushed between two families, and her son raised. During the divorce Valery and his wife Albina was pregnant with a second child.
Journalists picked up Meladze with questions about interesting position His girlfriends. Answering the singer hardly hid irritation: "What's wrong with the fact that the woman is pregnant? I normal person, she is a normal person. Another normal person will be born. What can the sensation be inflated here? " Albin itself comment on the situation at all, flatly refused.
Interestingly, throughout the novel with Valery (and this is more than ten years!) Albina did not apply to personal life. The fact that the couple seriously declared exclusively Meladze.
The second son of Valery and Albina appeared in July 2014. This child became the fifth for Meladze and the second for Janabaeva. Now the singer appeared as many as two heirs, about whom he dreamed! The former spouse gave her husband only daughters.
Albina Janabaeva and Son
The second kid's parents called Luke. "Translated from Greek and Latin means" light "or" light ". When I saw him, I immediately understood that this is a very bright child, "Albin told about the choice of name for the Son.
Valery tries to pay time to children from both women. And he basically pools girls, and the boys practices a more strict upbringing strategy.
Of course, after Meladze went to Janabaeva, insults fell on a couple. His swore for being a traitor, her - for separating, it would seem, happy family. "How I'm tired of all this! Everyone is broken, go, come, come ... Why is it so tormented? " - indignantly emotional Meladze.
Albin also took all accusations in his direction restrained and calmly, but not in a hurry to recognize the unpleasant status of "delibery". "If the relationship is crumbling and if a person cannot live? I think the partner is easier to find someone third and say: "It took it." And no one, of course, does not seek the reason for himself, "said Janabaeva.
The topic of Roman Valery Meladze and Albina Janabaeva has been mutating for many years. Some condemn the star couple due to the fact that the singer first deceived his wife, and later he left the family. Others sincerely wish beautiful couple Happiness, because they will grow up with two sons. The other day the Internet blew the news that the wedding of Valery Meladze and Albina Janabayeva took place. Is it true or another mystery of the media? Read in our material.
Fans upgraded the news about the faith of Brezhnev
Ex-soloist of the group "VIA Gra" Vera Brezhnev, who recently married composer Konstantin Meladze ( native Brother Valery), published a photo of a wedding cake with letters "VA" on his page with instagram. Faith signed a snapshot like this:
"Happy day V. and A.".
Fans instantly responded to the picture and suggested that the initials of Albina and Valeria were depicted on the cake. That is, a couple, finally, legalized the relationship.
After this photo on the Internet, another picture appeared - Janabaeva makes selfie, and on her unnamed finger The wedding ring is banging. The singer comment on rumors refused. A day later (after multiple congratulations and articles in the media), Valery Meladze made an official statement. He said that the wedding cake with the initials V and A does not have any relationship with them. The singer stated:
"The photo and what is depicted on it, is not connected with us!".
It should be noted that fans star couple All the same do not believe this categorical statement. Many argue that Meladze and Dzhanabaeva wedding hide and do not want their relations to be public.
The beginning of the relationship of Albina and Valery
Albina and Valery met many years ago, while Janabaeva came to Moscow to become famous. She was accepted for the post back vocalist famous singer And fell in love with him at first sight. Despite the fact that Meladze was married, he succumbed to temptation and began to meet him in secret.
In 2003, Albin learned that was pregnant. She came for advice to the eldest brother of his beloved - Konstantin. Producer, listening to the girl, noted that his brother's wife on demolitions should give birth to Valery of the Third Child, and he is unlikely to leave the family. He advised to keep the relationship secret as long as possible and, as soon as the children are growing, declare them out loud.
So Albina and did. She gave birth to a child and hid the name of the Father until Valery himself decided to tell about all legitimate wife. The girl answered the annoying questions of journalists:
"Yes, with the father of the child, we are not married. But we are fine. I think the wedding will not change anything in our relationship. We are already forever connected with each other by our child. "
How the love triangle "Valery - Irina - Albina" unleashed
In 2009, the news thundered about the divorce of Valery and Irina (after 18 years of marriage). According to one of the versions, the wife knew for several years that Meladze had a mistress and could no longer hide this fact from daughters. Once Irina told reporters:
"Valera told me about the" third party "a few years ago. Of course, I reacted acutely. It seemed to me that a nuclear bomb was broken in the soul. "
In January 2014, the marriage process of Valery and Irina finally ended. In February of the same year it became known that Albina was again pregnant and Meladze will again become a father. In one of the interviews of Janabaeva, the story:
"Many loves to say that I am delight. Yes, you can argue anything. But no one, in essence, does not know what is happening in a relationship. So I will not discharge myths and someone to prove someone. "
Now Albina and Valery live together, bring up two sons - Constantine and Luka. It is not surprising that fans are waiting for news about the wedding. After all, this pair had to survive a lot.
Watch in the video below the heartfelt video with the participation of Albina Janabayeva on the song Valery Meladze "She never be mine."
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(Shirt, pants, chapurin)
Messenger! ( Laughs.)
Not true!
Some kind of perfect man ...
Maybe it's just true?
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Albina: dress, yakubowitch; coat, ulyana sergeenko couture; Shoes, Ekonika; Necklace, Messika; Earrings, Mercury. Valery: Soroch, Kiton; suit, brioni; Coat, Ermenegildo Zegna
Style: Maria Kolosov. Producer: Olga Suntais. Makeup and hairstyles: Tatyana Preobrazhenskaya. Stylist assistant: Alena Gazarova. Assistant Producer: Elizabeth Popova. We thank Hotel Hartwell and Alexey Prupet for help in organizing shooting
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Opposites are attracted. This law of nature is once again confirmed by the famous artists in the first joint interview.
ABOUT nor enter the frame, and the camera only remains that clicking the shutter. Any angle is good, in front of the lens the present cinema, what is called the chemistry of relations. The style of retro is close, - it seems that observing failed in the past and see the usual picture of the bar, and not modern artistsExercised by images of Bonnie and Clyde. Valery ships albin compliments. "I told Albin many times that I would like to see her in this image," he notes. "It is quite possible that this photo session will help her take this style. In my life, the shooting of a video or a photo session often benefited to change the image. Surprisingly: it would seem that it would seem that The item secondary goes to the fore. Many years ago I had a similar photo session, but lacked the main thing - a woman. Shadow in the far plan, a female Si-Luet - and everything would be possible. When there is a mood in the frame, it immediately works on the image. With duet songs Also. If a real duet is happening between a man and a woman, no one pulls the blanket for herself, then the song is powerful. In the case of Albina, we do not need to negotiate, we have everything for a long time ( laugh)".
At the festival "Heat" in Baku you and Albina presented a duet. How did you choose the song "Without a fuss"?
We prepared it for television programAnd then decided to sing at my evening in the festival. Related to this frivolously - thought, one-time action. But the success of the duet says that perhaps it is worth continuing in this direction.
Before that Albina sang your song "Samba White Motilla" ...
Yes, she chose her herself, she always liked this song very much. She made a magnificent arrangement.
Albina and Valeria have different tastes, a view to the world, temperament, but it does not prevent them from "watch one way"
(Albina: Blouse, Alberta Ferretti; Trench, Escada; takes a veil, bessarion; earrings, ring, mercury. Valery: shirt, kiton; suit, brioni; coat, ermenegildo zegna; clock on a chain, Patek Philippe)
I am surprised by comments "Do you want to feed Valery?". No, no one will not work. We have different temperaments, and I wanted to sing it in my own way. Invited an arranger of Alex Davia, and we created a dance composition.
November 16 in the Kremlin passed jubilee concert "Valeriy Meladze". The program turned out to be not too strict as it would be possible to think ...
Strict and restrained, only when children bring children. And in life, and especially on stage, I am very emotional person. Spectators are convinced that emotions at the concert overlap. After all, my love songs about relationships. With mild sadness, humor. The concert in the Kremlin consisted of best songswhich were invented for those 20 years of more than a year that I go out on the scene and the block of new compositions. Sometimes I advise with the audience, choosing a repertoire, I ask what they want to hear.
Many artists go to different experiments to "catch the Haip", attract attention. You are hard to imagine in their place. For you, is this way unacceptable?
How I don't like the word "Haip", so I don't like it all that it means. And many of the sake of this do not-adequate steps. We are never a succumb to bones general course. Some time ago, even a duet with a group "VIA Gra" was perceived as a challenge. Like, as you, an adult solid singer, can sing with a frivolous team. But two turned out wonderful workswhich I am proud of. Especially "there is no more attractions." Then we have no feeling with the bones that we went into creative deadlock. I have a certain image, creative reputation that I was not easy for me, which I rushes, and there is a big prospect for activities. Why make sharp steps away from what is so good?
Valery Meladze and Albina Dzhanabaeva in the shooting of Hello!
(Valery: Soroch, Kiton; Suit, Tie, Brioni. Albina: Dress, Dolce Watch, Patek Philippe; Ring, GarRard)
In understanding your personality it is important to take into account the fact that you are the son of Georgia, although they have long lived in Moscow, and in relation to the volume of the talent have long been a man of the world. Or did you move away from your small homeland?
In no case did I move away from her, but I met a lot of people consonant with me, with the same views on the life born and grew up in Uzbekistan, Azerbaijan, Armenia, Baltic States ... Then we all influenced each other. Now in the USSR they see more negative, and in my opinion, there was a lot of positive: the penetration of cultures. This merger gave a very interesting powerful effect in art, music, literature ... Of course, partly I have a Georgian mentality, but mine life principles Not so much national, how many universal. I look at everything just - from the point of view of the responsible person. And my children take an example with me.
Every man is nice when next to him bright woman. But the fact that she is such an independent, bold, you hardly accept?
I like it. Once I realized that human relations are on freedom. Either you trust a person, either do not trust, then you at least for the fences around him, do not let him anywhere - nothing makes sense. Kaif relationships - in a situation where you give a person full freedom, and he chooses you. If you give to realize, he will be happy. And not to give - he will feel defective. I like everything in our relationship.
Your work suggests greater self-dedication. And you, and Albina need a rear. You did not have a discussion of the issue that finding two stars under one roof of non-plays with an ordinary life?
There is such an opinion. We have not come across this problem, just adapted. When I have concerts, Albina is waiting for me at home, where the comfort and order reigns. When concerts, I'm waiting for her: I sit calmly with a TV in home clothes. And it happens, we are going to some "heat", and both in the role of people who are preparing for the scene. All human is forgotten, artistic, but it requires a certain concentration. It is necessary that no one touches you without interfered. We have different dressing rooms, and we can fly by different flights and do not even cross the scenes. Everyone in itself, in its rhythm.
Albina, here you just need your comment. Valery destroyed stereotypes about Georgian man ...
From the very beginning of our relationship, he understood that freedom and implementation was important for me, and supported in everything. I know that he will always wait, hearse. He's really rear for me in this regard. Maybe this role is not so easily given. After birth, our junior Son, in my creative Life There was a pause. So comfortable for me, I even caught myself thinking that was dissolved in the family. I think Valera arranged it. I was at home exactly as much as I wanted. A year later, he gradually began to work, everything went naturally, and there was no obstacles to his part. And now, returning to the scene, I did not refuse my feminine role. There are people who help, but a woman needs some functions to maintain proper energy. I love to do the house, cook. The man feels.
Albin took place not only as a singer, but also as an actress. In 2012 she played main role In the film "Treason" Kirill Serebrennikova, it can also be seen in an entrepreneurial play " Bad habits", where she performs with Igor Galnikov, Sergey Shakurov and Daniel Svivakovsky.
(Shirt, pants, chapurin)
And Valery can insist on something?
May explain so that I listen. For me, of course, his opinion is important. So - not to insist, and convince.
Albina, your psychologist's education helps in life?
Messenger! ( Laughs.)
I must say that the psychologist I am not real. Just once in my life came not a very simple moment, and I wanted to help myself understand, switch, learn new people. Sometimes you are so looked at the problems, in our own world, that you need a view from the side to look at the situation at a different angle. I continued to work on stage, and while studying my problems began to be decided by themselves. But I am so raised that I bring things to the end. Therefore, I was happy, defended the diploma. Valery acted just like a tempter. I have an exam, I'm sitting at the computer, covered by books, and he: "Let's go to the movies? Let's go to the restaurant?" I wanted so much! But I refused.
In fact, I was surprised, admired. I am an inconsistent person in this regard. I don't like it - I'm laughing-suffer and get crushed.
How can a session like? 15 tests ... I wanted to leave everything and go with you in the movie! When I did, it seemed to me that it was something easy, and there was so many different disciplines! And this is a straight academic education - the psychological and pedagogical institute, people are receiving after graduation.
Russia is a country in which they do not go to psychologists. People walk to the bath, hunting, fishing, gather at the table, communicate with friends.
Not true!
I tried. During conversations with friends, it is much easier to solve. In general, the further, the clearer you see the whole matrix of life: why complicate everything, everything is so simple! Sometimes I am visited straight and insight into this account. I even recorded my thoughts on the evenings. In the morning I read - what nonsense!
But the session of the self-analysis took place. Albina, the topic of your diploma is devoted to relationships with adolescents. Does this study help to live with the 14-year-old son?
Maybe yes. Kostya's child was more good, but now the rustle.
He bunt is delicately, but persistently. Kostya calm, scrupulous. If something is interesting for him, he can enthusiastically study the subject. He read a lot of technical adult books. What we would talk about - and these are very different areas, - he is able to support the conversation at the deep level. I am pleased to surprise me how the current youth can absorb and analyze a huge amount of information. But if he does not want to do something, we cannot force it. He is a strong guy, and we treat it with this.
To take this position was worth a lot of work. I was brought up differently. In addition to the diploma of a psychologist, Valery helps, he has enough patience, love and attention. I admire how he communicates with the guys. I would have reacted more emotionally.
Albina and Valery brief two sons: 14-year-old Constantine and four-year-old onions. After the birth of the younger son, Albina took a timeout for a year, now her career is actively developing
It turns out, Valery acts as a senior comrade, wise experience ...
This is a bit exaggerated image, we do not feel a particular difference in age. In some matters relating to the house, life, I feel more competent. We are as reported vessels. And over time, they turned into a single whole.
Children distract you from each other or do relationship richer?
We always find time for yourself. Children fill our life, with the birth of Luke she shone all the colors of the rainbow. it new level, and our relationships including. Like all parents, we had sleepless nightsAnd Valera helped a lot. Revealed for me as dad. He fully engaged in full, intercepted the initiative.
Albina Dzhanabaeva and Valery Meldaz in the shooting of Hello!
(Albina: Dress, Chanel; Trench, Yana; Earrings, Pasquale Bruni; Ring, Garrard; necklace, Messika. Valery: Shirt, Kiton; Suit, Brioni; Coat, Ermenegildo Zegna; hat, borsalino)
Some kind of perfect man ...
Valery is a very responsible person. And the fact that we chose each other - it was a conscious decision that was not responsible with him in relation to all those with whom his life was associated.
If we talk about Bonnie and Clyde, their relationship was heated by criminal history, in your case it is what? When you look at your photos or speeches on the stage, it seems you just got acquainted. You have an enthusiastic attitude towards each other.
Maybe it's just true?
I am sure that this is true, because it is true. ( Laughs.)
Albina: Trench, Yana; dress, chanel; shoes, ekonika; Earrings, Pasquale Bruni; Ring, GarRard. Valery: Soroch, Kiton; suit, brioni; Coat, Ermenegildo Zegna; hat, borsalino; Boots, Pantanetti.
What allows a new look at each other?
You know, I want the first love last longer, so the internal mood is important. Then I realized that it is necessary to talk if something is wrong. To silence and silence, praise, clap the door, to enter into yourself only the offense and the thought "I do not understand me" - the way to nowhere. We S. different planetsThis must be taken as a given. You can not wait for a person who will completely understand you, this will not happen. Need to talk. Another thing is that, after a quarrel to start the first to communicate, you need to cross through yourself. Probably because I am an adult, wiser, as a rule, I start the conversation first. Although Albina is also now, it happens, initiates the movement towards, and it makes me very happy. To be honest, I don't need anything else, the essence of the conversation is secondary to the desire to communicate in principle. You can not talk at all, just sit nearby, look at each other. But this level, I hope we will develop in 20-30 years.