The godfather parents handle God. Who can be the godfather, and who is not
And who did you make the godfather? We are going to baptize the child, but I can't choose the godfather. Never challenged each other's choice, because If so - it means right)) the first baptized sister's husband, she does not know why he chose him, it was not even a close friend.
did you baptize your child and if so that at what age and if not, why. It is not very welcome, but not prohibited. I read today that it is impossible only to the older daughter baptized the institute girlfriend and a family friend who witnessed at our wedding.
Christening. Tell me, please, who knows why you can not take into a cake husband and wife (spouses in general) and the last question, can you really baptize no more than three kids? Each other? No, they are originally from different kinds (families). If your children - yes ...
And yet you are mistaken in the fact that "this" before you was not - a friend of her husband was up to you, right? Everything is necessary for all of us! What you can not just be friends, be sure to baptize the children? All the same Ranger's sister's sister of the child. So why the godfather could not have a family member to do ...
So - whether to baptize the child to us, or must you first pierce yourself? Break all, why not? Worse, you will not be definitely from this. Will it be better? Then God will give, and Orthodox friends will appear, who will be able to become decent perceptuals.
i baptized my first, the choice of parents came to the choice of the Piece of the Parents, Dad-with His. He chose his child's friend, I myself. Girlfriend is married, so their maritime is excluded. And from the second way, I wanted the second girlfriend, but communication was made to the minimum, she was impossible for children and why not?
about christening. We seriously have this question the wife of the godfather of the godfather was engaged: that it is possible that it is impossible. But something I remember: Take the godfather from one family at the same time (husband and wife), baptize children of each other (I - yours, you - mine), baptize more than one child at a time ...
Who can not be appointed by the godfather. Choosing from friends or close to the one who takes this honorable duty baptism. 1. Is it possible to baptize the child without the godfather and the godfather? And the godfather did not call, why was it categorically configured that it was only his own.
And even if you find another church for the rearrangement (they say, in the same thing - it is impossible) and so on., Will you go around all church canons - are you not afraid to leave a child without angel in general ??? I encountered this situation a little in another perspective: my friend also ...
off-baptism. Girls! Tell me who knows whether it is possible to be a godfoot with her husband and wife. When weddings should be either unmarried / unmarried sweeper with a witness, or a married couple.
The mother and father of the child have no right to be with him. It is worth noting that the husband and wife cannot be perceptuals from one baby. Grandparents, grandparents, aunt, brothers and other relatives are allowed to become a godfather or mother. It is recommended to take into the godfather of blood relatives. It is believed that blood bond becomes stronger, as perceptions are the second parents of the child.
Orthodox Christians
A person who is an Orthodox Christian can become a perception and constantly comming. Atheists and representatives of other religious areas of the godfather can not be. In this case, a symbol of faith and read it in the baptism process should be configured. From the perception, the daily reading of prayer for the gossip will also need, as he is now responsible for the spiritual in the future. Regular visit to the Temple and Education in the Christian faith is an integral part of the responsibilities of the godfather.
Age
The godfather cannot become people younger than fourteen years old, as they have no spiritual experience that will be required to instruct the newborn in the right faith.
Servants of the church
The limitation concerns only the father or mother of the child who cannot be the godfather in their own baby. It is also not allowed to become the spiritual parent of one child with spouses (if the couple only plans to get married, it also falls under the ban). The rest of the relatives, including the family brothers and sisters of the parents of the child, as well as their parents, may well assume the duties of the godf. Also do not choose in the godfather priests or monks, young children. In addition, adoptive parents also can not become the godfather from their saucers and steps.
By the way, there is a ban on the participation of ladies in the sacrament of baptism in the period of monthly sewage.
What should give the godfather in the performance of the sacrament of baptism
It is usually argued that the godfall must acquire for the baptism rite. Naturally, if a person who was chosen to so much an honorary position, does not want to make a mistake, it is better to consult in advance with his parents.
Also, the godfall often acquire silver for their gods. Especially relevant such a gift in the event that the baby is conceded at the age when his first tooth climbs.
The godfather should make contact with his gadget to the maximum. After all, he becomes not only a spiritual mentor of the baptized, but also a peculiar doubleler of biological parents. After all, one of the duties of the godfare is considered to raise the child in the event that native parents died or cannot be able to fulfill their parental duties due to certain circumstances.
The choice of godfall parents for his child is a very responsible moment in the life of any family. After all, in Orthodoxy, such sacred baptism rites are prescribed to the parent of a parent for moral and Orthodox education. Therefore, as a godfather, you often want to see a close and native person - the sister of the mother or aunt of the crumbs. Let's figure it out, is it allowed to take your sister as a spiritual mother?
To answer this question, you need to understand what highlights should be based on parents when choosing responsible people for the newly minted member of the Church. The godfather can be:- necessarily Orthodox Christians;
- preferably church people who will instill their future godfather the right spiritual education, ready to drive him into the temple and stimulate the desire to grow in the Orthodox faith;
- pregnant women, despite all sorts of superstitions;
- unmarried women.
- Mother and father of the child.
- People consisting in blood relationship cannot simultaneously become the godfather parents to one child.
- Monks and nuns.
- Those who profess a different religion are not Orthodoxy. In other words - Inovier.
- Spouses will not be able to become a godfather and mother for one child.
- Operations that consider themselves unbelieving.
- Girls up to 13 years old and boys who were not 15.
- People who are in relationships and plan them to legalize. After all, an intimate connection between the godded parents is not allowed, after the sacrament, only spiritual relationship binds them.
- Immoral personnel or mental people.
- A person of the same sex with a child, if you plan to choose only one perception for the baby.
This list does not include a parent's sister, so there are no obstacles in order to take your sister to the godfather. Act, leaning on reasonable arguments, listen to your inner voice, choose a heart!
If you plan to choose a child's sister's native sister as a spiritual mother, then know - the church does not interfere. It is allowed to baptize the child to all relatives of the child, except for his native father and mother. Therefore, the native sister or daughter aunt or uncle can be a godfather. However, again, think about whether, for example, the older your daughter take on the responsibility that you are going to impose on it. Is it ready to be near all his life, support spiritually and praying for her garde.The cross after the sacrament of baptism can be called a "family member". Therefore, if you do not want to acquire new "relatives", then a solution will be quite acceptable to take his sister's perception, there are no prohibitions on this. The main thing is to take into account the above-mentioned human qualities.
Priest's answer:
In order to take the sacrament of baptism, currently there is a mandatory preparation for it, called the announcement. It is held with Khfezhem (if it is an adult) or with his parents and the godfather (if the baby is baptized) "announcement" - literally "oral instruction in the basics of the Orthodox faith." It includes intellectual and spiritual training. Intellectual preparation is expressed in visiting the public conversations in any temple and acquaintance with the basics of Orthodox faith, with the essence of the sacrament of baptism. It is also necessary to read the gospel of the Gospel at home, to learn the "symbol of faith" and prayer: "Our Father", "Virodok, Delo, Rejoice ...". Spiritual training includes a visit to the Temple and participation in worship, which is necessary to receive a person of a personal experience of meeting with God, without which knowledge of the subtleties of the creed - is little useful. According to the blessing of the Bishkek bishop and Kyrgyzstan Daniel, in the temples of our diocese, four to twelve public conversations are held. Many people are indignant by this and say: "Why is it all necessary?" First, the announcement is the direct commandment of Jesus Christ, who said to the Apostles: "So, go and teach all the peoples, the cross of them ..." (Matt. 28.19). Secondly, the practice of baptism is now in most cases afraid of people. Crossbar, as a rule, at best, in order to have a reason to notice (baptism by tradition). At worst - by different magic reasons: for health, for good luck, to protect against spill and evil challenches, etc. And where is the place of Jesus Christ, living relationship with him, life in the Gospel, salvation? In Alexandria, in the first centuries, the existence of Christianity was such a case. The epidemic began, many died. And people who have not planned to take baptism, from fear of death began to be baptized. They died and they. And then the bishop of Alexandria was a revelation, in which God said: "Why do you send me empty bags?" Here are such empty bags and there are people who take baptism or killing their children, but really not part of the church. And the priest bears responsibility to God for these baptism. Ap. Paul in the message to Timothy instructs: "Hands do not impose anyone who has hurriedly and do not follow other people's sins" (1 Tim.5, 21). Therefore, the church, trying to minimize such fruitless baptism, and the coming. By the way, Baptists, baptism and Soviet times and is now preceded by a mandatory announcement, and no one is indignant. We are - Orthodox, accustomed to baptize and not think about and not to confess their faith. Therefore, baptized many, but those walking in the temples living in the gospel, faithful people - little. What is related to the question: can their native sisters be with each other with the godfather? - No, because here there is a mixing of spiritual kinship, into which the godfather and the baptized, with physical.
The godfather for the Son was chosen by his wife - sister and her husband, without aware of the responsibility of this title. Can I withdraw the status of the godfather on church canons? How to do it?
The most important thing in this situation is that the sacrament of baptism has been accomplished, and it is effective, regardless of the dignity or unnecessary of the godfather. According to church canons, her husband and wife can not be the godfather among one child, so the husband of your sister is not automatically a godfather. It is impossible to appoint a new godfather, yes it is not necessary. It is important that your son is brought up in Orthodoxy, there was regularly in the temple, he was involved. The main responsibility for the upbringing of the child lies on the parents, and only later - on the godfather.
Sacra. Alexander Ilyashenko
Is it right when the husband becomes the third, fourth child for a woman?
This is generally the tragedy of modernity, which is rooted in the Soviet time. A half-year-old child was given to Nasseli, where women were raised, women were taught at school again ... And where are the parents? They are with eight in the morning at work, return home to seven-eight evenings. All chatting of the guys with men came down to the weekend and holiday, at best. Hence the dryness of the whole generations. And then, expensive women, it is impossible to intercept the initiative. Complain: "I feel easier to drive the nail yourself than to ask for her husband. I spend less time on this, faster and carefully will do it. While he is explained, .. - two weeks will pass. I need this mirror now, a painting, a shelf hang! " Let two weeks pass, but he will make it with his own hands.
Sacra. Igor Fomin
There was a sympathy between the godfathers of my granddaughter (after baptism), which passed into intimate relationships. I heard that any relationship between the godfather is not allowed, because Considered sin. Can this sin, perfect in susceptible, affect the fate of their godders - my granddaughter?
Yes, such relationships between the godfall are not allowed and considered to be sin. But their granddaughter will not affect the fate of your granddaughter. Pray, try more often to fit it, educate her Christian, and the mercy of God and accompanies you and your granddaughter!
Can be the family brother and sister with a crossed one child?
Yes, brother and sister can be a godfather with one child. Remember that it is important not only to baptize the baby, but also to educate him in Orthodoxy, regularly communion of Holy Tyne.
We want to baptize our little son, but we cannot find believers of the godfather. Why don't the godfather be native parents? Can there be a sacred senior sister kid?
Talk to the priest of the temple, where you will baptize the baby, perhaps he will tell you the pious good godfall from the same coming. Church canons are prevented by kid's parents to be perceptuals, the eldest sister of the godfather can be. But the first demand for the upbringing of the child in faith is from parents. Before baptism, it is good if parents are confirmed and acquired, and in the future will regularly begin the sacraments.
Husband is sick epilepsy, the disease was transferred to the first child. Doctors said that the following children could inherit this disease. Can I give birth from another man, since I really want a big family.
Having a child from another man is a grave sin, from which everyone will be bad, in addition, the fruit of sin can be a sick child. I hope for the mercy of God, ask him for patience, love, purity of spiritual, faith. May I give you the merciful Lord for your faith of healthy children.
Try to regularly confess and communion of the Holy Holy Tyne, and the child comes up as often as possible.
Sacra. Alexander Ilyashenko
Is it possible to make officially divorced spouses and live together without issuing a re-marriage in the registry office, or is it regarded as a fornage?
If you are crowned with your spouse, then there is no problem, live in the world. If not, then in order for your cohabitation to the cohabitation as a blud, you need to register with the registry office. Marriage registered by the state is not a prodigal cohabitation. And if you are baptized with my spouse, then think about the wedding. Then your marriage will be consecrated by the church and thoughts about the sinfulness of your joint residence you will not have to arise at all.
Sacra. Dionysius candles