Leading Lydia Taran. Famous TV presenter Lydia Taran
Day when she changed the course
One day she decided that it would be absolutely, easily, without any protection, would take and will go to the university at the Faculty of International Relations. Famous TV presenter Lydia Taran studied at the Kiev school, the famous fact that it was not possible to walk there. In other words, Lida studied in the Ridgest School. Today she is happy that regularly strolled lessons. She was sitting at home or in the district library and read the books of the poverty. Yes, yes, and it happens. Kiev girl who adults did not control, because in their family everything was built exclusively on mutual respect and trust, engaged in self-education.
In himself she was sure. But - flew. And on the last day I began to feverishly find out how other the faculty can submit documents. In front of the eyes flashed the names: chemical, physical, foreign languages, philological, historical ... everything is not that. Bored. Not warm. Stayed - journalism. And she chose what, in fact, hated: Parents of the famous TV presenter Lydia Taran were famous in Kiev journalists. Rather, Mom, Maria Gavrilovna, was printed in a number of Komsomol publications, which in Soviet times there were an incredible amount. Father (unfortunately, it is no longer with us), in addition to journalism, writing, was engaged in translations. All over the apartment: on the table, sofa, on the floor - the handwritten sheets, cutting out of newspapers, magazines stems. Little Lydia fell asleep under the endless knock of a typewriter, which is a loaf of the taratoril, it was silent for a few minutes. But from this hatred sprout professional love and greed. "Dad was so cooled! - "Don't even dream that I will help you!" - He screamed when he learned that his daughter went on journalism. And this is despite the fact that he has a lot of friends at the faculty. Just a father was extremely fundamental man. Well, nothing terrible. In any case, I did not regret any day that I chose journalism. It was the only faculty at which it was allowed to study at the hospital at the same time and work. As many guys, I went to the radio in the first year, worked in union, interfax. Then - on FM radio stations. Soon hit the television. Everything turned out somehow, without excess tension, failures, disappointments. "
Day when the excitement woke up
One day, Lydia moved from one building to another: in the building next to the radio station on which she worked, equipped with a room for the "New Channel". Asked who to contact about the employment. They explained, invited to the interview, offered to work. Although Lydia is recognized: "I got it easily, but then in these structures he was seriously germinated." For example, when I come at 21 to the "New Channel", suddenly it was suddenly announced: "I want to conduct sports programs. In our family, we are interested in sports. Here you have a concept. " They explained to her with a smile: "Girl, maybe you will still be suitable for starting, work out with something simple, grow up?" Famous TV presenter Lydia Taran was lucky: she was not thrown as a blind kitten in the water: I will give up - survive. She did not face with intrigues, nor with competition or envy, nor with the "Telecedenth." The "New Channel" then collected the beautiful team of like-minded people in his walls. Obsess people of different ages, sincere those who wanted to work. Everyone lived a single idea - professional greed: to create something fundamentally new on Ukrainian television. From London, the famous TV journalist Andrei Kulikov returned. And the famous TV presenter Lydia Taran (which on TV was without a year week) immediately set together with television broadcast on Ether.
"You just imagine - who am I and who he is! And we are together - on the morning ether. When I saw Andrei, the gift of speech was losing. Language is no less from excitement. But for the TV show the most important thing - the desire to learn. And I studied. For example, today, the unteperic sophomore student comes to television and immediately shakes right: "What kind of such (!) Do I offer all 500 dollars?!" Himself - no one and call him - nothing, at the same time says how much he is obliged to pay. Yes, I was at my time glad and happy that for such a cool and interesting job I, it turns out, also give money! I would have plowed for free, just not deprived the opportunity to participate in the process itself. By the way, Andrei Domansky, who then worked on Radio, was exactly the same state of Euphoria and complete misunderstanding, for which he signed monthly in the statement and puts in the purse of the bill. "
Day when the revolution happened
Once Lydin Kuma, the producer of the "Lifting" program, convened a lot of guests to the housewarming, including the TV presenter Andrei Domansky (by that time he left the radio station). They worked on a single TV channel, but in the corridors practically did not intersect. Lydia led Evening issues "Sport-Reporter", Andrei - Morning "Lifting." Seen on rare parties. I got acquainted with the housewarming closer and went away. Domansky then left the "lift". I explained that he had little, it turns out, therefore returns to the family to Odessa. And here the revolution happened to the country. In Odessa, Dansky led the transmission "Orange Square" - a peculiar discussion club between ordinary citizens and politicians - and often called Lida as "news" lead, for consultations. Then they all worked the New Year Corporate. Lida rushed to winter holidays. And in the day I started receiving from Domansky SMS - Funny poems. So, something abstract, not binding to anything. "At that time I had a serious novel and a stormy personal life. Similar messages, both from Domansky, and from other people received the sea flared. But Andrei Yuryevich then it seemed that he was so flirting with me. I thought I was very friendly with him. By and large, it was so, since soon we broke up with a beloved man, and Andrews saved me from suffering experiences. These were abstract conversations about how to properly build love relationships, so that they subsequently did not fall apart, as if a card house. But Andrei Yuryevich quickly promises: it's time to enter the game. "
Day when she refused to Doman
Once, and Andrei, they were in one energy field: both have a difficult period of personal relationships. Lydia experienced a gap, and Andrei could not establish relations in the family. They listened to each other and did not speak at all about themselves.
"For some reason, for some reason, forever turned out in the same companies. Since already on a short leg, I sometimes wondered: "Andryusha, if you're already" in me, I have been going on, "it does not hurt to listen to my soul moaning? Nevertheless, the dates one on one we did not have long. Andrei at that time was a family man, and the family is the same paraffia, in which I never was going to fit. When I realized that he really applies to me seriously, I started ... Disgrace him from our meetings.
In short, I continued to be friends with him, and he is already not with me. Truly a serious turn of our relationship accepted only when Andrei took an unambiguous decision on his family. But this is the topic of exclusively Domansky, not mine. I would not want to discuss her with anyone. "
Day when she tried a wedding dress
Once, the famous TV presenter Lydia Taran performed the role of the bride - as much as five times. Exactly so much of her photo sessions in wound outfits. A snapshot of the bride Lida bangs at her mom on the table. But in the registry office Lydia Taran and Andrei Domansky never gathered. Lida and Andrey together for six years. Two-year-old daughter Vasilina will grow up. At the same time, the guys live in a civil marriage and do not think officially make relations. Close friends, TV presenter Marichka Padalco and her civilian spouse TV presenter Egor Sobolev, strongly discourage them from the campaign to the registry office. This is because each of them had an unsuccessful marriage at one time. In response to female tricks: they say, the child should have the official dad - Lida is only surprised by his shoulders: "So he has it. This is recorded in the birth certificate. And the surname from Vasilina - Domanskaya. Printing in the passport is absolutely not affected by Andrei's father's duty - both in front of his older children and the younger. He knows about it perfectly. In addition, we do not have extra money in order to stupidly throw them into a certain incomprehensible ceremony, which by and large does not need anyone. This money is better to spend on the journey that we do. "
All household questions this beautiful, in demand and extremely busy television steam solves easily. The problem of dirty dishes went along with the purchase of a dishwasher. Cleaning, like cooking, is paraffia of a wonderful Aunt of Lyuba, almost a member of their family. Aunt Luba - a participant in many television culinary projects. Prepares dishes that invited celebrities are given for their own. By the way, at the cottage at the Aunt, Lyuba Mama Lidia Maria Gavrilovna with Vasilina spend all summer. While dad and mom at work, my grandmother is engaged in her daughter.
"All problems are solved. The main thing is not to put them at the head of the corner. You can bite: they say, what my bad wife I have, I can't cook anything, - Lida smiles. - Yes, Lord, there is a pizzeria, there is a delivery of food to the house. What is not a way out of the situation? Although when time and desire appears, why do not cook delicious yourself? "
Day when she danced for everyone
Once she left the "5 channel". "After all, I was previously invited to the" pros ", but together with the editor felt very comfortable on the" new ". And then he was heard from some monotony and understood: it was time to move on. And they decided to move from a tiny shop in a laveque lavet. Opportunities for self-realization here much more. "
The fact is obvious - at the beginning of Lydia Taran led only the program - "Breakfast with" 1 + 1 ". Soon there was a show "I love Ukraine." After - the project "Dance for You-3". In it, Lydia Taran was one of the star participants.
"This is not my initiative, and it is also an idea, as for me is quite strange. I did not feel in myself. In life, after all, did not dance - neither in circles, nor in amateurant. Even at his own wedding with Domansky, the Waltz was not twisted in the whirlwind, since there were no weddings. Initially, it was firmly sure: nothing will work. It was very difficult - the wounded fingers, torn muscles, stretching, bruises. It is like professional sport - real work. It turned out that a person had such classes 100% transform. Some gyms start to work in the brain, which previously "slept". Everything is turned on to work. Although the dance first is not a brain. This is a soul and body. "
Of course, Lida, like anyone, Criticism to their couple on the dance floor was unpleasant. But despite the tears, she, first of all, proved that he knows how to keep a blow, secondly, as an experienced TV presenter, he had a report that he was participating in the show. So much here depends not on how you danced, but from how your number was furnished. By the way, Andrei Domansky was far from delighted with the idea of \u200b\u200bhis wife to take part in this TV project. He perfectly remembered, as last year, one of the participants "Dance for you" was Padalko's march, and how her child got sick during the project. In addition, each man wants his wife in the evening to him at least a glass of tea begun to, in the end, under the supervision was, and did not disappear until 12 o'clock in the rehearsal hall. However, Lida came to parquet. Although in real life she will rather give way to a dispute with her husband: "I will give up much more comfortable than arguing with Andrei. And comfortable for us two. And why do something contrary to do, if you can simply go to each other and get from your own blinding, flexibility and non-conflict real buzz. "
Andrei Domansky and Lydia Taran broke up after five years of living together. "It can not be!" They spoke in television circles after a few months ago, Andrei composed often admitted that he left the family. For colleagues, this news was like a thunder among the clear sky. After all, a couple considered hardly an example for imitation: both work in one sphere and, it seems like no one should understand each other. But life makes its own adjustments ...
"At the last stage of our relationships and after their end, I had serious problems with self-esteem," Lida admits. - I thought: God, how did I immediately live, once all these years built a family, and at 32 I got a kick, which showed me that the design of my life collapsed into a moment! After gap
I lost 9 kg. I did not have an appetite, I did not want anything ... "
- Lida, when there were talk about your parting, they were considered an unsuccessful joke, Glots of envious ... to all anything, but only not true. After all, in the eyes of the public you were the perfect family.
Yes, everything happened in one moment. Usually you are informed about this when everything is really destroyed. But I thought that everything was fine. We had a media family, and it seemed to me that we were understood to treat the peculiarities of our work. Andrei had a rapid career coil, my dance project began with the main activity in parallel with the main activity. After the labor everydays, I managed to keep a house, raise the child and thought: everything is fine ... While the first of January did not know that our family is no longer.
- Not the best gift from Santa Claus ...
Yes, I received it on the first day of 2010. For six months, Andrei and I prepared a thorough ski journey. The child was left her grandmother - before that they worked around the clock and dreamed that they would sit in the car and go through the whole of Europe to Italy to ski. For four years, these travelers have become in our family tradition. But first of January in Lviv Andrei said that he would not go further - he would need to return to Kiev urgently and to be alone.
Because early in the morning in Lviv, our friends were waiting for us, with whom we planned this train, I had to ask Andrey not to shock them and repay the Schengen visa with us, cross the border, and then under the pretext of the job to return to Kiev.
I tried to talk, offered to settle in another hotel ... But in his mind it was noticeable that he did not intend to rest with me. As a result, we still drove to Italy. And the next day Andrei returned to Kiev. I could not do anything. I had stress, shock, panic ... ridiculous arguments that we prepared for this for so long, left a child, and in general, that I will now do one if this vacation was planned for two, they did not act on him This trip, I saw that Andrei was distracted to his phone life, it goes to his senses, offered to talk. But he stood on his: "Everything is fine!" As a result, I stayed in Italy alone. And, in fact, on returning to Kiev everything ended.
- And how did you explain the general friends that you are no longer one family?
It was the most difficult thing in this situation. Many did not believe, some tried to reconcile us. But still we escaped tedious disassembly. Andrei has changed a circle of acquaintances. He also loved to communicate himself
With you, and now, in connection with the professional in demand, he does not need a large circle of friends at all.
- From the moment of separation, so much time passed. Do you really have a normal conversation?
The truthful dialogue was not. At first, it is generally difficult to explain. Emotions, complaints ... When such a ball gather, people cannot adequately talk. And then it turns out that this is no longer necessary for anyone.
At first, Andrei announced that he wanted to rent an apartment and live alone, because together we could not live. "Probably, yes," I replied. - Since you have accepted such a decision. "
But men have a rule: if they decide something, then the responsibility for it want to share someone else. He realized that he could not live with me, but the decision was supposed to accept me. This is a "absentee coupon" for a man: "You spoke yourself!"
- You broke up in winter, but continued to work together. How did you manage to keep the break in secret so long?
We had some number of events where we were engaged together before the new year. Already living apart, we did not have the right to refuse them ... It was, of course, uncomfortable. But the same work.
And no one knew anything because we did not advertise. Even asked the press service of our channels to say nothing. And it worked.
Then Andrei himself told me that his press service in the column "Family Status" has long writes: "Not married. Raises three children. " I asked: "So I can also say that I am not married and bring up a daughter?" "Apparently, yes," Andrei replied. On this and shaved.
Lida, men sometimes emerges something similar to repentance. Andrei did not come to you with such confessions?
Usually serious relationships are rarely worried about. I thought we had many years, we saw a lot, survived different periods. But Andrei from those people who cannot hide their relationships. If he fell in love, then he wants to be with this man ...
Your female curiosity did not flutter, you did not want to know who the stranger that broke your family happiness?
I even specifically did not help help. Gossip comes me, but I do not tend to believe the world of show business. I'm already calm, and Andrei looks like a happy man who lives in his pleasure. But he has changed. I look at him and understand that five years ago I started a relationship with a completely different person. Just he has his own, not family priorities.
- Did you have suspicions that my husband has another woman?
Of course, were. In 35-36 years old men have crisis in life, and a woman who lives with such a man thinks that all his hobbies are temporary, because love is a great power. And the most ridiculous is to ask what is happening. No one will tell anyway. When I asked him with direct text, he denyed everything. No, I had, of course, some female premonitions. Well, then I thought: why should I know it? I needed to save my life ...
About his personal life I only know what she is beautiful - from his interview. Now he looks free and happy. Maybe at some stage he was in our relationship, he wanted something new, unknown and could not afford it ...
Now we have an even relationship, as Andrei says, in the "father-mother" plane. And they do not provide for interest in each other's personal life.
- And why in five years of civil marriage you never reached the registry office?
Andrei first marriage was official, and he emphasized that he would never marry anymore. As I wanted to be with him, then adopted this condition. When it was pregnant, I wanted to marry officially. Woman waiting for a child turns into an injured substance. Even the strongest women of the world happens ...
But it was only my desire. Even when Andrei took attempts to somehow "update" feelings, I asked for a joke: "Then you marry me?" He answered: "No, I never get married!"
Lida, I understand how difficult it is to talk about it, but how did you explain the daughters that dad will not live with you anymore?
First told you that dad went, he had a lot of work, away shoots ... The most important thing is when the father leaves, and the daughter understands that he seems to eat, but he is not, - to explain to her where he, he remains her favorite dad . I had to visit the children's psychologist so that she would convince me that everything was fine with Vasya.
Now Vasya and Andrei are seen several times a month: I buy tickets to the theater and ask him to go with my daughter, or he just comes to us, and they play at home for some time.
But the fathers have everything differently - they are enough for them to satisfy their father's needs and continue to engage in their lives. Once every two weeks I can send Andrey a photo of Vasi. And he is SMS, which will come to the day after tomorrow. Or: "I'm abroad now, and what is Vasi size clothes?"
"Do you, thanks to your clock and female wisdom, managed to keep good relationship with her husband?"
I feel good for him as the father of my only daughter. He gave me the best that could be every woman - a child.
Our personal relationships spoiled, but the financial issue we decided to lovely: they said the amount that Andrei distinguishes for his daughter. He honestly pays, and I honestly spending money on a child. For this money, Vasya visits developing and sports activities. And I earn perfectly on my own.
My present is Vasyusha, me and my mom. Mom lives with us, as I get to work every morning at four in the morning, and night kindergarten, where you can give a three-year-old child, there is no in Kiev. And for several months already, as we are really good and comfortable. I always kept myself, now - too, and I feel like a self-sufficient person. I understand that this may not be life, but for now it is only pleasure to me. So parting for me was not the end of the world, but the beginning of a new life.
- Well, this is not exactly the doubt. One of the most successful TV presenters cannot be different.
You know, I have so much work that I have no time to think about it. I am now tearing at once in two programs: "Snіdanok z" 1 + 1 "and" about football show "on the channel" 2 + 2 ". The channel management asked me to return to the subject, which I did not do good five years after working on "5 channel". In "Sniddank", every hour news and guest studios.
Sometimes there are so many guests that one Ruslan Senichkina (my unclean one) is not easy. And on Mondays lead the program "About football show", which is late in the evening and ends in deep at night. It is designed to a narrow circle of people, mostly a male audience. Visiting all stars of football visited. And on the past program, I walked with sadness: Be alive my father (avid football fan), he would be happy to see me in this amplua.
- Time for recreation in this mode can be found?
This is difficult. It appears on Friday after the ether and ends on Sunday. On these days I love journey. True, few flights are suitable for one day. But sometimes it is possible to get somewhere. In the summer, one to Europe flew on 6 days. I managed to open and love the Belgium unknown earlier - along with Brussels, Bruges and Gennet. In the autumn, my "two three" decided to meet in the Caucasus, in the mountains. Therefore, with the editor of the program urgently flew in Tbilisi. As a result, they did not have time to reach the mountains themselves, but the birthday in the Kakhetian valley, directly on the vineyard with an amazing view of the Caucasian mountain range, was able to fame.
- Vasilina, looking at his successful mother, does not seek a television world?
She is a self-sufficient person. And in her three years it clearly knows what he wants, she has its own list of priorities. But it is not infected with television fever and can safely switch to cartoons when in the morning sees me on TV. So far, considering the young age, she simply cannot support the conversation, but I think it will soon begin to make serious comments in my work.
- What is missing today for a strong happiness of a strong woman Lydia Taran?
Full 8-hour sleep! (Laughs) I have ambitious plans for the future: I want to change the wardrobe, pull out English, which is still lame compared to French. I also dream to go to courses or seminars on psychology.
The new vertex I took is my mom. I left my parents and became independent at age 17. And at 33 I called my mother to live to myself. She pools us with the daughter of the original kitchen. We used to think that it could not cook like this.
In general, the turns are needed to everyone to understand that life is much wider, and it does not narrow to the state: "There is he and what around him." There is a lot of life without it. You can with my mother and daughter to be truly happy. I will meet this new year again at the ski resort, but I'm going to go skiing, not by myself. In general, from the upcoming New Year, I am waiting for a completely different, quality year.
Millions of television viewers adore this cute and charming blonde, together with which "waking up" the whole country on the channel 1 + 1 in the transmission "Breakfast". - One of the few girls on Ukrainian television, which could "hold out" in the profession for many years and continue to be one of the most sought-after leading. In the biography, the ram is a very interesting fact: the girl was born in the family of journalists. The parents were constantly not at home, because of what Lida since childhood hated journalism, but after graduation, he decided to continue the case of parents!
Lida - a native of Kiev, it was born in 1977. As parents paid to the child not as much time, the ram began to walk school. Unlike other children who walked around the courtyards, Lydia conducted a "free" time with: I was sitting in the reading room of the library, located near the house. After school, which, despite the absenteeism, Taran graduated with good marks, she tried to enter the faculty of international relations, but failed exams. The girl stood before the difficult choice and thought for a long time, where she could show themselves. Nothing other than journalism, did not come to mind. When parents found out that the daughter went on their footsteps, his father stated that he would not help her, although he had many acquaintances at the institute.
Later, Lida confessed that the parents really didn't help her, but she did everything, unlike other fellow students. During her studies, she worked on the radio, and then she was accepted on television, and this transition was completely unexpected. In the neighboring radio station, a new channel studio was located. Taran asked the passing worker, where you can learn about free vacancies. So at 21, Lida became an employee of a very famous channel. The girl had a small choice, but she asked her to give her an opportunity to work in the sports news. Management then advised Lida first to gain experience.
However, Andrey Kulikov, one of the most famous TV journalists returned to the capital, was returned to the capital, one of the most famous TV channels, and the Taran was put in a couple of him! According to Lida, at that time she felt so happy that was ready to work almost free. And when Lida learned that she would pay decent money for her air, he literally mad from such a dizzying take-off. In 2009, Lida moved to the channel 1 + 1, where there were popular transmissions such as "Breakfast" and "I love Ukraine". Later it became a member of the popular project "Dance for you" and the owner of a prestigious television award. For a ram, it is very important to try yourself in something new and interesting, so it does not refer to the group of those leaders who work for 10-20 years only in one direction, for example, lead a news block. Lida believes that the routine is very quickly bored.
After the dizzying career on television, there was an equally stormy and discussed Roman with. Together, the leaders lived about five years, but did not register their relations. In 2007, their daughter was born. Lida robbed with Andrei for a long time when he was still married. Only after he broke up with his wife, Taran was decided on relationship. Unfortunately, Andrei did not turn out to be the "only", which comes to life once and for all. Everyone frankly envied this pair and could not even assume that Lida and Andrei would break out. Lida experienced a gap hard, but found the strength to look at this situation on the other side. Later, in an interview, the TV presenter said he would thank the fate of the meeting with Domansky and for giving her daughter Vasilin.
A ram is a big fan of skiing, and if any opportunity tries to relax in Europe. TV presenter believes that when you give a vacation, you need to spend it as the last time. Waran never refuses himself and does not sit on diets. It is a big fan of beach rest and chocolate tan. For many years, the presenter is friends with his colleague Padalko. Marichka and her husband were the godfather of Vasilina, and Lida herself is a cross son of Padalko.
Lida loves France and everything connected with this country. She rested several times there, but because of the economic crisis, it is afraid that it will not be able to travel as often as before. And recently, Taran stated that he was not going to leave the country at all, even for several days, and would not take a vacation until the situation in Ukraine was normalized. Lida noted that now all the inhabitants of Ukraine follow the news every day, so it considers their duty to remain on the air.
Now Andrei's daughter and Lida for seven years, and Vasilina grows with an intelligent girl. The other day she was interviewed and asked about mom. Vasilina said that they always have a lot of plans with mom, and they do not sit idle. Vasilina Lida "introduced" to France, and the girl dreams there to go there, but still teaches French, which her mother knows perfectly.
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We decided to ask our heroine, TV presenter and main feast of the project Zdіysny Mriyu. Now it is one of the most successful women of Ukraine, which fantastically combines charitable activities, career growth and personal life. But why it all started, and most importantly - when Lydia Taran has time to live.
Especially for readers Clutch.The TV presenter remembered the cloudless childhood and school problems, frankly told about the most reverent fear, relationships with men and fateful chance that her life is permeated everywhere.
About childhood
When I am asked about childhood, a large deciduous tree is immediately charged before our eyes, which grew between my grandmother's houses and its neighbors. It was a mulberry. My brother and friends climbed on her, they built asylum or houses, imagined themselves as adults. On this tree could sit for hours ...
Another grandmother in the city was a pond. Big and colorful. We had half a day, playing on the silky, then ran on the pond and returned when it was already dark. I remember the adults for this we were very scolded, and in the morning we were bought by work - to collect a strawberry, watering the garden ... as soon as they coped with the tasks, they fled to the silky again - and everything in a new way.
Therefore, with childhood, my summer is associated with me. I always spent it at my grandmother, went to her even before I went to school. My parents lived in a big city, in Kiev, and worked very much. Therefore, when the summer began, where was the brother with my brother, as not to grandmother? We traveled to my mom's mom. She lived in Znamenka, Kirovograd region. In the private sector.
I had free childhood. We bathed to exhaustion, sold something in the bazaar ... They were engaged in such things in the big city not a place. We, of course, bathed in Dnieper in Kiev, but it cannot be compared. Very other scales of liberty and festivities.
About parents
My parents were not quite ordinary for that time profession. Creative. Mom worked as a journalist, and dad - screenwriter, translator. And since they were not listed on any plants, we did not have those material "advantages" with my brother, which were inherent in strong Soviet families workers, engineers or trade workers.
For example, at that time, members of the trade union at any enterprise could receive free vouchers to the camps for their children, had the opportunity to relax in sanatoriums, at the resort bases in the Crimea at a symbolic price. That is, there were many such Soviet pieces, which were passed by us, because the mother and dad had specific professions.
In addition, the parents had no opportunity to feed us with all sorts of deficiencies, for example, sweet New Year's gifts from trade unions. In some small cities, as far as I know, such special supports are still preserved.
My parents worked a lot, like everyone at that time. I can not say that my brother and I were abandoned children who did not receive attention from Mom and Pope. But we understood that adults are busy and they have no time to solve our children's questions. Therefore, no one has ever tried to run to their parents with their problems - they tried to be independent. And it played us only to benefit, as I think. From an early age, learned to be responsible for themselves and their actions ...
About school years
I studied at the district school on the left bank of Kiev, located near the houses, where many factory workers lived Arsenal. The school was Russian, but it was opened in it "Ukrainian" class, I specifically pierced my parents in all instances. For them, it was a fundamental question! Only therefore, in fact, I studied there. The Ukrainian class is the fruit of the struggle of my parents for the Ukrainization of the Soviet Kiev.
In school, the study was carried out for children from ordinary Ukrainian families, who were just moved to Kiev and which needed to quickly Russify. So happened everywhere in those days. And someone had to resist. These someone became my mom and dad.
Gradually, the Ukrainian-speaking class became the class of alignment, because it was considered immune. The children in it were much less than in other classes, and sent us only the most disinterested in their studies. They said that we have the worst performance and behavior in school.
To be honest, I never worried about this, because I did not feel like a collective being. Everything was: both enemies, boycott, and quarrels. At the same time, good moments happened. But to say that my class became friendly that I would not exchange it for some other, I can not.
Life showed - Of all my classmates, a higher education received only 5 people, including me. For Kiev, this is nonsense, because the number of institutions here simply rolls.
Yes, and the study itself in the school was carried out "Ababa as". I admit honestly, I sometimes strolled, instead of lessons fled to the library and sat for the books for the books. Although it is difficult to call for absenteeism, because the traffic control was generally absent. We were free in this regard. Many people joke that in our school you can do everything (laughs - approx.
Of course, it was not everywhere. I just studied at the district school, and in big cities such institutions were not centers of culture and education. Especially when the number of first classes reached a dozen, where there were more than 30 children in each.
I repeat, it was not the best place for children. In the area there were different cases - someone jumped out of the window, someone "cracked" offices, and in some classes there were no windows, they were knocked out and closed on plywood ... As far as I know, this school has improved now - and now This is a school with an in-depth study of some languages.
About children's dreams
In truth, I did not have any children's dream about the future, I did not think about him at all. Even closely there was no desire to become, for example, a pianist, teacher or lawyer. But I understood exactly that I do not want to link life with mathematics, physics, chemistry, therefore went to the humanitarian lyceum.
And in the charter itself, thinking about the future just lacked time. We were so downloaded by study, essays, scientific discussions, district and city competitions in all subjects, KVMs on history and the like that they could not think about what we want to become. Our main goal was, perhaps, the end of study (smiles - approx. Ed.).
I ended the lyceum, being a 15-year-old girl. But at that age, all children can specifically present their future, expand some life priorities? ... Experience shows that there is no.
Does we have a system of education aims to ensure that children from early age are looking for themselves, they tried to find the sphere with which they want to associate life. Using all sorts of training, psychological tests, career guidance conversations with specialists? Not. Our education system is aimed at taking out of the throat, shove out unnecessary knowledge, and then let go into life - and do what you want. Where do the concrete dreams of the future take?
About fateful "Accidents"
Yes, it's interesting that the life turned. Because much happened absolutely unexpected for me. Almost every stage of my life is permeated by some fateful chance. For example, entering the lyceum. It seemed impossible, the competition was serious. There were trying to enter "Insenk" from all over the city, and after studying at the district school, it seemed an impossible task with them.
To enter the lyceum, I decided spontaneously. Immediately I will say that it was absolutely my initiative, no pressure from parents. I went to an embroidery circle, made friends there with one girl - so she told me that she was preparing to enter the humanitarian lyceum. When I heard it, I decided to find out about him. I went to the Lyceum for intelligence, talked to the teachers - it decided that I really need to learn there.
First, it was a university lyceum. It has already sounded like a song! (Laughs - approx. Ed.) Secondly, it was located in the city center. There are completely different children, more knowledge-oriented.
There was a very big contest. I passed 4 exams: Ukrainian and foreign languages, history, literature. Warning questions, I will say what was preparing independently. Only with the language helped a school teacher, and her houses were friends for free - they wrote dictates, made exercises on grammar.
In general, in three months I had to learn the whole school curriculum. Because the knowledge that was given in the district school would not have enough to pass exams. I focused on admission to the Lyceum, I really wanted it. Just dreamed! Probably, it was noticed because I had passed some miracle.
Plus I was lucky that I studied French in my school. Although they taught it even worse than other subjects (laughs - editor). After grade 9, when I went to the Lyceum, I knew literally three phrases - "Merci" (thanks), "Bonjour" (hello) and "Je M'APpelle Lidia" (My name is Lida). But in fact, it was French that gave me the opportunity to enter the lyceum.
Lyceum wanted to create a French group. Since schools in which this language was taught, it was possible to count the fingers, almost everyone who passed the exam was accepted. If I had to undergo English testing with the same level of knowledge, as it was with the then French, I would never have passed.
Some kind of magical confluence. It was very difficult to enroll in this lyceum, being a student not very strong (I would even say, weak) school. But somehow I still managed to pass. What is interesting, and my girlfriend from the district school on Oboloni was accepted with me, where French were also taught.
At this accident did not end. University I chose the same way as a lyceum. Although at that time and there was no special choice, the documents were submitted only in one place. I could not do - prepare and wait for the next year. My girlfriend, I wanted to get to the Faculty of International Relations, but failed our interviews. And all we have remained, - jump into the last car.
So I got to the Institute of Journalism KNU. T.G.Shevchenko, whose admission committee still worked and took my documents. The exams seemed pleasant to me, thanks to their studies in the humanitarian lyceum everything went easy.
Honestly, admission to the Institute of Journalism was not only an accident, but also stupid. Parents even scolded for it, because I knew my brother as it was hard and poorly lived with their professions. I would voluntarily wanted such a fate, but I went, because there were no other options.
Study I was easy. I studied in the abstracts who wrote in a lyceum. Information in them was enough to pass the exams, so I could miss some lectures. I remember alignments from my abstracts, even spurs did themselves.
In general, all that we taught two years in a humanitarian lyceum, another 5 years later studied at the Institute for Journalism. And it was a real ball, because calmly it was possible to go to work. What, in fact, I did.
I even got on television thanks to the happy offering of circumstances. My boyfriend worked on the radio, and I sometimes came to his studio. In the same building, where the radio station was located, was just built New channel. I decided to try good luck - came, said I want to work. And they took me.
About career and motherhood
When I gave birth to Vasilina, I was 30. At that age career, nothing can prevent anything. Moreover, I did it from 18 years old. When Vasya appeared, I already had a stable work in which I had succeeded, so my daughter's birth would not spoil my life, but made only better!
I generally consider stupid the idea that children can prevent career. All exactly the opposite. They give such a reboot, such a rethinking of life that many either begin to work with greater zeal and seek success, or radically change internally and find themselves in a completely different field of activity. The birth of children changes worldview and life priorities.
My profession did not require a long seating on the decree - it was possible to stay at home, edit the material and go to the studio only directly on the ether. Therefore, the birth of Vasilina did not knocked me out of the professional gauge, only from physical. After all, you first pick up kilograms, and then you need to dump them. And during breastfeeding it is quite difficult.
After giving birth, I was restored for more than a year. I do not know, there is a lot or a little ... I did not exhaust myself with physical exertion and hunger strikes to restore the form in record time. The process was gradually. And when Vasa was one year old with a tail, I started preparing for the project Dance for you. We trained a lot, the numbers rehearsed, trying to bring them to perfection. Thanks to this, extra kilograms quickly and easily left.
About raising daughter
I and Vasilina close friends, but only before that time, I will not tell her three times to remove from the table, but she will continue to pretend that her requests do not touch. Then we stop being girlfriends, and I still turn on the "strict mom" mode. From time to time it is just necessary.
Everything in the world to her very good - grandparents, my friends and colleagues, even her teacher. Everyone is scattered in praise ... she has such a chocolate-marmelade-marshmallow-bubbling life, which without some discipline and periodically strict, demanding mom she simply cannot become independent and responsible. Sometimes there should be a person who can ground slightly.
For example, recently, the daughter did not give the best way to the English language exam, and her teacher wrote to me: "You just do not scold Vasilinochka. Do not be angry hard ... it happened. " Everyone is protected around it, but it is necessary for someone to build it, he said that she was not there, directed to the right direction. Therefore, you have to take the role of criticism. Although I love daughter more than everyone in life, and it is not even discussed.
On the threshold of already teenagers of age - with horror I am waiting for us that he will bring us. There, any factor can become a turning point. I worry about how not to lose touch with Vasya and keep track of all her gusts, so to speak. So that it did not turn out to be that she needs to talk with a psychologist. And who will be to blame? Mom, of course. (laughs - approx.
Parents during this period should show sensuality and child-orientedness, but at the same time teach independence and responsibility for their own choice. Although the modern generation of children is different from our. They are not silent right now if they don't like something, and they themselves can be well directed by their parents in terms of their upbringing.
About relationship
When you are a public person, the public is interested in everything about you. Especially personal life. I have long been working on television and understand it perfectly. But since our relationship with Andrei ended, almost 10 years have passed, so talking about them now is stupid. He built a new family - he has a wife, children. And I have no right to talk about him, because it is not my story for a long time.
I can say that the result of our Union with Andrei - Daughter Vasilina - I am pleased. She is smart, reasonable and no wise child. Vasya understands why dad does not live with us and does not make tragedy from this. She has a lot of relatives - grandmothers, cousin, summary sisters and brother, aunt and uncle ... their love warms it.
Of course, sometimes there are times when Vasilina tells me: "You know, it seems to me, dad doesn't love me." But this happens to every child. After the dad appears, they spend some time together, and their relationships are aligned again. This is normal.
I think with horror if Vasya had to live in the situation of dislike, distrust, quiet conflicts, when mom and dad sleep at different rooms, inevitably, she would have formed a fault. Thank God, we do not have this.
Parents should not sacrifice themselves for the sake of a child and torture each other, justifying that it will be better for him. This approach is incorrect in all respects. On the example of very many families, I know that this is a terrible feeling when you have a little heavy wear on you - the burden of responsibility for malfunctions between adults. You find yourself in the role in which you do not deserve to be. The family must educate and let go, and not hold hostages. After all, even when we grow up and start an independent life, you continue to be hostage, only remotely.
Every family is happy and unhappy in its own way. But to be with someone for the sake of a child - not my choice is definitely. It will not bring happiness. Not only me, but also my daughter. There is no point in such a life at all, but there is nothing worse than a meaningless life.
Somewhere half of those who communicate with Vasya, both parents are presented in the family not every day, many have parents in divorce. In the modern world, this was not a horror that should be hidden, but, unfortunately, one of the norms. Although, probably, regret it is not appropriate to speak. We, because, do not know what happens in other people's relationships and that is the cause of their parting. Time is coming, the family institution is changing. And we cannot affect this process.
About gossip and heter
Last time I try not to answer questions about personal life, because in the network almost every day gossip about my pseudorovans appear. I attribute relations and with married colleagues, and with men I saw in my life from the strength of two times. I constantly live in tension, in which I do not deserve to live.
For example, recently a girlfriend from Kamenets-Podolsky sent me the news in which I say that I wrap my novel with my ex-husband's colleague. He also has a TV presenter. And what is interesting, the material is focused on the fact that my "beloved" for 10 years younger than me. I saw this man only twice: on football and during the filming of some kind of plot. But the novels we had time to send. This happens everywhere, I got used to it, but my friends are very worried about this, indignant.
I understand that all this is written to raise traffic. "Shock! The famous TV presenter has a lover younger for 10 years "- who refuses to click on such a header? In truth, such a "ducks" only smooth. This suggests that I am not only popular on the web, but also the fact that I can still start a lover for 10-15 years old (laughs - approx.
About men
I always had someone. But my personal life was formed by itself. I did not dedicate the search for a guy, the men, the second half - call, as you want, is a lot of attention. I was more likely concentrated at work and career. If my main goal was to establish a family life, I probably did it 20 years ago (laughs - approx.).
As for today, today's ... I can say for sure that I can't live with a jealous man, with a male owner. Because he simply will not withstand the incessant flow of shock news about my "adventures". He needs to be truly confident.
It is very important for me that the man who is next to me is self-sufficient and implemented in a professional plan. But its external and physical data is secondary ...
About plans for the future
Honestly, I am now tend to live according to the principle: "There are no problems of tomorrow's problems for today." It seems to me that if you have no constant worries and anxiety about the future, if your head is not clogged with thoughts about no longer existing problems, then today you can live much more productive, better and happier.
Truth is simple - every well-lived today closures us to the same cloudless excellent future. Of course, have a big goal that inspires you and sends in life, it is cool. But it is important not to overload a stick. Because while you are concentrated on how this purpose is to realize, forget what the meaning invested in it.
I live today's day and lay out the maximum. It is most important. Every day I have a car and a small car concern: maternal, workers, household ... For example, a huge piece of my soul occupies a wonderful project Zdіysny MriyuThanks to which we help children with serious health problems believe in yourself, in a miracle, find your dream and become happier.
My way of good faces, adored by the defone, is not always applicable to realities. Sometimes to carry out one childhood dream, you need to do a serious work. For a whole year, we already have plans - art marathon # washing machine. We really want to make the kids dream without restrictions, without establishing conferences - everything is possible, you just need to believe, do not give up, go for your dream.
Only 10% of the pretty kids are so able and only 5% healthy ... It is sad. But 63% believe in a miracle! To inspire them, we will collect 100,000 dream drawings and find 100,000 wizards! .... If for all this work, I will still deal with the strategic planning of the future and self-confidence, I just lose time that it is necessary to appreciate, love and enjoy every moment.
Interviewer: Olesya Bobrick
Photographer: Alexander Lyashenko
The organizer of the shooting.
In an interview for transmission Vіtverto z Mashai єprosinine (Canal Ukraine) TV host was serious than ever. He shared his love story from life - why he and Lydia Taran. So there was no relationship.
"When did you decide to leave my first life, did you go against my mother?"
Yes, of course. She reacted very sharply, Dad was painful and sister was against.
?- They were against leaving a family or against Lida?
This is all automatically. Andrei leaves the family, he has another woman, it means that it is the reason. And it is she who is a factor that prevents Andrei to take his head in hand. So seemed to parents.
? - Lida was very successful, and you just started. How do you think who was the main one? Lida is a very strong person.
I periodically faced the fact that, being in nature the leader, I understood that from under me my saddle wants to knock out.
?- Accounted for yourself on the throat?
Sometimes yes. I liked publicity. As a child - who is pregnant to toys, it is necessary to keep everything, to need.
? - How was it? What did this relationship took place?
We lived work. And it was very fascinated. This was the main engine of relationships. Ukrainian television - it is then simply fondanned from all the cracks.
? - Your wife is leading serious programs. Did you intervene, advised her something?
She came home, and we talked to her there, everyone discussed. We gave each other support.
? - You then earned with the Lida. But you already contained, it turns out, two families.
Yes. But we were enough. We have never had questions why I financially helps my first wife. Everything that remained, it was evolving and we had a common budget.
?- And how did Lid talk to your mom?
I talked poorly because it was originally a barrier. I saw my mother makes everything for that no one felt, but it hung in the air. The social protocol was observed, but not further.
? - But how is it? When are two favorite women are not quite in warm relationships?
And at that time I was not bored with this question. At that time, the work was always moved. And so the main thing was that everything was fine for work, so that I could help me to help.
Do you regret that relations with the Lida were such workers' workers and passionate that someone had not spoke before. Maybe they would then end up earlier and there would be no shocking case for me when you broke up when we drove together from Kiev to Italy by car. And in the car, you realized that nothing binds you. Until such an extent, I realized that you, bringing her to the resting place, turned around and did the way back. This is what should happen in the brain of a man who already has experience and gap, and the way to nowhere?
I understood that not honestly. Maximen as possible to stay nearby, at the time when I do not want it. So I turned around and left. Moreover, you understand if we were alone. We went with friends to rest. And at that time I did not have energy to put the performance that we are a happy couple.
?- It can not be that you understood it all in the car ...
On the eve of departure Factory,and the Lida had Dancing. These were two exhausting projects, both for her and for me. We completely left our head into your project, and we had no other conversation at all. Then, at best, we crossed once a day. We emerged from this state before the trip and drove. Hints that everything is not very good, they were already before the trip. And I cried very much. We arrived, spent over. The next morning I said that I have problems at work. Lida supported this version. Then, when I left, she said what was going on.
? - Lida in turn, did not take a ticket for a plane, did not return for you, why?
She was very offended. It seems to me. But Lida continues to project, she changes the inner offense.
? - For what insult?
She said the word "betrayal" several times. Even one of the channels rented the program, and not one, and Lida in an interview told very impartial things about me. The betrayal is that I left it then. The betrayal is that I put the end of our family, in that she had plans for the future.
? - She wanted to marry you? She put you ultimatum?
Yes. We had a period when she asked me this question, and I did not know what to answer her. You know, if you have to look for an answer to this question, then perhaps I had a very strong feeling of guilt before Vasilina (the common daughter of Domansky and Taran - approx. website), my children in Odessa, and it seemed to me that it was a betrayal towards them. Yes, it's nonsense nonsense, but it was so.
? - did you talk about this?