Riddles for children about good behavior and etiquette. "Etiquette"
The riddle of the knife and historical information about the origin of the knife.
If well sharpened, he cuts everything very easily.
Bread, potatoes, beets, meat, fish, apples and butter.
The most ancient tools found by archaeologists during excavations were hunting and fishing tools. Among the oldest tools, the most important place was occupied by flint knives, which served both as a weapon and a means for cutting food. So the knife appeared at the dawn of humanity. It took hundreds of thousands of years for primitive knives to acquire handles, which then turned into bronze and iron. At first, knives were in the form of daggers, but Napoleon at the end of the 17th century banned the manufacture of knives with a sharp end, as murders often took place on the streets. It was unsafe to keep dagger-like knives on the table, as they could become a military weapon at any moment. As soon as passions flare up at lunch and dinner, a peaceful conversation could turn into an argument. No wonder the venerable knights, entering the banquet hall, left their swords at the entrance. From a formidable weapon of hunting and war, knives have turned into peaceful devices with a rounded end. Which we are currently using.
Over time, several types of table knives have developed. Knives appeared - files for cutting cheese, special knives for extracting oysters from shells, wide knives for fish. A special etiquette was also developed that regulated the rules for the use of serving items with knives.
The mystery of the fork and historical information about its origin.
Crows are not counted at the sight of food,
They throw themselves together from both sides:
One cuts
The other one clings
There is enough work for both of them.
A fork is a cutlery with an interesting destiny. Needless to say - the subject is useful, but it was not destined to play an important role in the history of mankind, which the knife played. Therefore, they "thought of" about the fork 5000 years after the invention of the knife.
Perhaps the predecessor of the fork was the fishing trident, which became the regalia of Neptune.
In the XI century, the fork had one prong, and since the beginning of the XX - four. The first fork in the form of a golden awl on an ivory handle was made for a Byzantine princess at the beginning of the 11th century. In the 16th century, the French queen, with 64 spoons, had one fork, which she kept in a special case. The wider use of the fork came about when puffy collars came into fashion. It turned out to be impossible to put food in my mouth, so I had to lengthen my arms.
In Russia, the fork came into use under Peter I. In our everyday life, forks of different types are common, they differ in size. There are special fish forks with grooves for separating the bones from the pulp, forks - shoulder blades. The smallest ones - with two prongs - for lemon, with three - for sweet dishes, with four - for lunch and snacks.
Spoon mystery and history of its origin.
It is more difficult to do without a spoon than without a fork, therefore, almost all peoples have known it for a long time. So large spoons were invented - scoops (ladles) and spoons for food. They were given various shapes: hemispherical, oval, oval with a pointed end. Various materials were used to make spoons: wood, bone, metal and even ceramics.
Spoons have been around for 2,000 years. In ancient Novgorod, spoons were used, decorated with carvings and paintings. The center of spoon production was the Novgorod province.
Our ancestors were very fond of hot food. Serving almost boiling cabbage soup on the table was a matter of honor for the owner. It is no coincidence that Catherine II, inviting Lomonosov to visit, told him: "I hope that the cabbage soup will be as hot as yours." The wooden spoon did not burn the lips. The second reason: wood is a very plastic material. In the hands of a craftsman, a wooden spoon turned into a work of art. When Peter I traveled around Europe, the hosts who received him were surprised that he used only his own devices and constantly carried a spoon, fork, and knife with him.
Rules for the use of napkins and historical information about it.
"Napkin is a new word." This name is borrowed from the German language, into which it came from the Italian "napkin".
In ancient Greece, more than 3000 years ago, fig leaves were used as napkins, with which slaves wiped the lips of masters. Then the ancient Romans had asbestos napkins that were not washed, but thrown into the fire for cleaning. But later they disappeared from use, and napkins appeared in most European countries in the middle of the 16th century. Before that, a piece of bread served as a napkin, at worst - a sleeve of a garment, and then, when the tablecloths appeared, then its edge. As early as the 16th century, the etiquette manual recommended that a used spoon be wiped off with a tablecloth. Napkins were especially popular in those countries where men wore beards.
In Russia, even under Peter I, napkins were a rarity and spread only in the 18th century. In the beginning, they were intended only for select guests. Now the napkin is an indispensable element of table sorting. They can be of various sizes, but should be square, slightly starched.
There are many ways to fold a napkin, but in all cases, you must adhere to the rules:
Touch the napkin with your hands as little as possible
Choose such a shape so that the guest can easily and quickly unfold it
Fold all napkins the same way
You can also put paper napkins.
Rules for using napkins:
you should not take the napkin from the plate until it is served on the table;
they put it, folded in half, on their knees, bending towards themselves;
it is not customary to lay a napkin in one of its corners by the collar
fingers accidentally stained while eating, gently wipe with the upper half of the napkin, you can wipe your lips with the same napkin, if there are no paper
wipe lips, blotting them on the upper half of the napkin, it is ugly to wipe lips with sliding movements
you cannot use a napkin as a handkerchief
you should not, sitting at the table, closely examine the cutlery, and then wipe them with a napkin, noticing something
after eating, you do not need to carefully fold it, you need to put it to the right of the plate
if a napkin falls on the floor, ask for another.
Proverbs and sayings.
Do not put your fingers into the salt shaker, do not put dirt into the salt shaker.
When I eat I am deaf and dumb
Bread is the head of everything.
Without salt, the table is crooked.
They don't dine without bread.
Bread is not food without salt.
Without lunch, conversation is not red.
Not in our honor, and not for us.
Bread and water are peasant food.
Eat the pies and take care of the bread!
No salt, no bread - half lunch.
It's not tasty without salt, and it's not satisfying without bread.
If you want to eat rolls, do not sit on the stove.
Lie down after lunch, walk after dinner!
Hunger will break through - you will eat what God gives.
Without bread and without porridge, our labors are in no way.
To grab with the ardor - not to gorge yourself, but to get burned.
Eat the mushroom pie and keep your mouth shut!
I want to eat a pie, but I don't want to go underground.
Riddles about cutlery
The younger sister of the rake,She has four teeth.
But her life is in the kitchen,
And the business knows only its own!
(Fork)
If well sharpened,
He cuts everything very easily -
Bread, potatoes, beets, meat,
Fish, apples and butter.
(Knife)
They can cut bread
And sausage for a sandwich
And anoint the bun with butter.
Good for many, he works!
(knife)
From one huge pile
Scattered across the tables;
Well, stop stomping children,
Serve dinners to you!
(Plates)
We stand side by side in the closet,
We shine with its purity.
We invite you to tea.
Do you know us? So answer!
(Tea cups)
They cook cabbage soup in it,
Compote and porridge
For the whole family
Our great!
(Pot)
They never cook in me
They bake - sometimes
And usually they just fried,
The way I ...
(pan)
I am the "son" of the samovar,
And also with water.
And I will whistle
While young.
(kettle)
It is better to present the rules of behavior to the child in a playful way, so that it is clearer and more accessible. To do this, you can use riddles and games about polite words presented below.
Riddles
Talking to friends is not too lazy
Smiling ...
(Good day)
Goodbye to each other
We'll say ...
(Goodbye)
Don't blame each other
Better soon ...
(Sorry)
How beautiful it is
Good word ...
(Thanks)
When you are to blame, you are in a hurry to say
Please, please-
(Sorry)
Never interfere in someone else's conversation
And you are better than adults ...
(Do not interrupt)
Even a block of ice will melt
From a warm word ...
(Thanks)
The old tree stump will turn green
When he hears ...
(Good day)
If you can't eat anymore,
Let's tell mom we ...
(Thanks)
The boy is polite and affectionate
Says meeting ...
(Hello)
When we are scolded for pranks
We say ...
(Please forgive me)
Both in France and in Denmark
Saying goodbye ...
(Goodbye)
If a friend meets a friend
Friends shake hands with each other
In response to a greeting
Everyone says ...
(Hey)
I wrote a letter to my mother
I answered yesterday
And at the end he transmitted
To all friends ...
(Hey)
If with a friend or a friend
The separation was long
When we meet, we say:
"How old and ..."
(How many winters)
If you met someone
According to the laws of etiquette,
So that the conversation goes up the hill,
We ask: "How ..."
(Affairs)
***
Don't be rude to older people
And do not be creepy,
When you meet them, tell them
Not "hello", but ...
(Hello)
***
Our world is tired of evil
So that he becomes kinder
We are not too lazy to speak
At the meeting …
(Good day)
Masha knew a lot of words,
But one of them is missing
And it's like a sin
It is spoken most often.
This word follows
For a gift, for lunch,
This word is spoken
If thank you.
(Thanks)
Children Dasha and Egorka
Pizza cheese is grated.
They ask for mice from the hole:
"Give! Be ... "
(So kind)
***
Filya's puppy was walking in the yard,
Suddenly he met an old man bulldog.
I ask you to guess as soon as possible:
Who should be the first to say hello?
(Filya's puppy, because he is younger, and the younger ones are the first to greet the older ones)
Here comes Zhulka the lapdog,
Fashionista, imaginary ...
And towards - a gentleman,
Cute scotch terrier.
Guess or not:
Who will say hello first?
(Scottish Terrier, because he is a man, and a man is the first to greet familiar women)
And below are the fun riddles about polite words author Olesya Emelyanova.
Games
1. "Learning magic words"
Tell your child what polite words mean, that people in different countries greet each other in different ways, and all languages have such magic words.
Learn magic words that are close in meaning - "Hello" and "Good afternoon", "Goodbye" and "See you soon", etc.
Or you can learn the words of courtesy in different languages of the world. For example, the word "Hello" or "Hello".
Hello is the most popular and useful word for a traveler. And the simplest, so it will not be superfluous to know how to say hello in different languages of the world. It is interesting to note that a greeting from another language is not always literally translated into Russian as “hello”, often it will mean “good afternoon” or “hello”, and sometimes even “peace be with you”.
| Language | How does it sound |
| Azerbaijani | Salaam Aleikum |
| English | Hello, Hi |
| Arabic (Egypt) | Ahlan wa sahlan |
| Arabic (East, North Africa) | Marhaba |
| Afrikaans | Hola |
| Belorussian | Pryvitanne |
| Bulgarian | Hello |
| Hungarian | Jo napot |
| Vietnamese | Chao |
| Hawaiian | Aloha |
| Dutch | Hallo |
| Greek | Geia sou |
| Georgian | Gamarjoba |
| Hebrew | Shalom |
| Indonesian | Selamat |
| Icelandic | Godan daginn |
| Spanish | Buenas dias |
| Italian | Buon giorno |
| Latin | Ave |
| Latvian | Lab dien, sveiki |
| Lithuanian | Sveikas |
| German | Guten Tag |
| Norwegian | Goddag |
| Polish | Dzien dobry |
| Portuguese | Ola |
| Romanian | Buna |
| Serbian | Sane |
| Slovak | Dobry den |
| Thai | Sawatdi |
| Turkish | Merhaba |
| Uzbek | Salaam Aleikum |
| Ukrainian | Privit |
| Finnish | Paivaa |
| French | Bonjour |
| Hindi | Namaste |
| Croatian | Zdravo |
| Czech | Dobry den |
| Swedish | God dag |
| Esperanto | Saluton |
| Estonian | Tervist |
| Japanese | Konnichi wa |
2. "Be attentive"
This game is best played with several children. You need to ask the children to complete the task, but you need to complete it only when you name the "magic word." Below are examples of commands, you can use them, or you can come up with your own.
Stand up please!
Raise your hands!
Please clap your hands!
Trample.
Jump, please.
Please, hands forward.
Lower your hands, please.
Be so kind as to tilt your head forward.
Tilt back, please.
To the left.
Right.
Please, sit down in your seats.
3. "Polite - Impolite"
Rules of the game. If you read about a polite act - children clap their hands 2 times. When you read about an impolite act, children stamp their feet 2 times. You can also think of other fun moves.
Examples of actions:
Say hello when you meet
Push and not apologize
Whistle, shout, make noise at school
Give way to elders
Do not get up on the teacher's appeal
Help climb the stairs
Say goodbye leaving
4. "Polite watch"
This is a warm-up game that can be played with one child or several. Children depict a clock. The two hands are hands that go around an imaginary dial.
Leading: Tiki-tock, tiki-tock -
The clock goes like this.
Seven in the morning the clock struck
All the kids were awakened.
Children clap their hands seven times, depicting the striking of the clock: bom-bom.
Leading: The morning has come
The sun has risen ...
Answer guys
What should I say when I wake up?
Children: Good morning!
Game continues. The arrows move again; the clock is ticking and now shows twelve o'clock in the afternoon.
Leading: So the day has come, guys;
What should I say at a meeting?
Children: Good day!
The game continues in the same way.
Leading: The arrows ticked-walked
And it struck six in the evening.
Children clap their hands six times.
Leading: The evening has come, guys.
What should I say at a meeting?
Children: Good evening.
Leading: Well done!
5. "Polite tram"
This game is best played with a large company. Because it involves the driver, the conductor and the passengers. Children are built one after another by a train, depicting tram passengers. The driver is in front, holding a toy steering wheel. The conductor treats passengers by issuing tickets not for money, but for polite words (thank you, please be kind, sorry, hello, etc.). In this case, the same word should not be repeated twice.
Tickets can be made from paper, old postcards, or calendars.
If one of the passengers finds it difficult to name a polite word, one of the friends-passengers can buy a ticket for him. But at the same time, knowledge of magic polite words is mandatory.
If no one can help a stowaway passenger, the conductor sends him to the driver. The advantage of the driver is that he can say any polite words, even those that have already been sounded. When all the passengers are plentiful, the polite tram departs.
Hello dear readers!
We talked about how we can teach our children. Today I will continue this topic and suggest that children read poems about politeness, as well as guess riddles.
It is better to present the rules of behavior to the child in a playful way, so that it is clearer and more accessible.
And poems about politeness will be a good helper. And they will also help children in fostering artistic taste.
Poems should be colorful, easy to remember. An illustrative example is Samuil Marshak's poem "A Lesson in Courtesy", where the rules of behavior are explained using the example of a bear cub and how they must always be followed.
There are rhymes in poetry that are quickly and unobtrusively remembered by children. The child learns the rules of conduct in a fun and easy way.
Now there are many different, colorful books that will help parents in raising their children. The child does not always understand why to say polite words. Here the heroes of poems, fairy tales, cartoons will come to the rescue and figuratively show why you need to be polite.
Courtesy Poems for Children
We all learned sometime
Walk, paint, talk.
Let's remember guys
How kind and polite to be.
Meeting friends and acquaintances
I look into their eyes with a smile,
It's very easy for me to be polite
I will be the first to say hello.
Someone came up with a beautiful
Thank you for your help,
The usual word "thank you"
We must not forget to speak.
Saying goodbye, we are all "goodbye"
We always say to each other
"Please" -if desire
Or we want to fulfill the request.
How many useful things in the world
Beautiful and affectionate words.
Please just be polite
After all, this is the basis of the foundations.
It's very easy to be polite:
Be kind - the usual advice
It doesn't matter how tall you are
And how old are you.
S. Marshak. "A courtesy lesson"‘
A bear of about five or six
Taught how to behave:
- Away, bear, you can't roar.
You can't be rude and swagger.
You need to bow to your friends
Hats off to them
Don't step on your paw
And do not catch fleas with your teeth,
And don't go to four.
No need to chomp and yawn
And who yawns deeply,
He must cover with his paw
Open mouth.
Be obedient and be polite
And give way to passers-by
And respect the old ones.
And the grandmother the bear
Into the fog and ice
See you home!
So Mishka is five or six years old
Taught how to behave ...
Even though he looked polite,
He remained bearish.
He bowed to his neighbors-
Foxes and bears
I lost my place to my acquaintances,
He took off his hat in front of them.
And to strangers came
With your whole heel on your paw.
I poked my nose where not,
Trampled grass and crushed oats.
Piled belly
To the public in the subway.
And old people, old women
Threatened to break a rib.
A bear of about five or six
Taught how to behave.
But, apparently, educators,
Wasted time!
Samuil Marshak has such a funny rhyme about politeness.
Riddles
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"Etiquette". Summary of the lesson-conversation on moral education
"Etiquette". Summary of the lesson-conversation on moral education
Explanatory note:
Etiquette- an important part of universal human culture, morality, morality, in goodness, justice, humanity - in the field of moral culture and about beauty, order, improvement.
Unfortunately, some people have to study the norms of behavior already in adulthood. And sometimes it becomes a real problem. Therefore, it is my firm conviction that it is better to master the basics of etiquette from kindergarten. All the more so today, when children and their parents are actively traveling the world. Knowledge of the rules of behavior will save you from awkward situations and all kinds of absurdities.
From early childhood, a child enters into a complex system of relationships with people around him (at home, in kindergarten, etc.) and gains experience of social behavior. To form behavioral skills in children, to bring up a conscious attitude to their actions, one must start from preschool age. As you know, preschool age is characterized by increased susceptibility to social influences. A child, having come into this world, absorbs all human ways of communication, behavior, relationships, using for this his own observations, empirical conclusions and conclusions, imitation of adults. And moving through trial and error, he can eventually master the elementary norms of life and behavior in human society.
A special place in teaching preschoolers the rules of etiquette can be given to conversation. The conversation helps to find out the level of knowledge and understanding of the norms and rules of behavior by children, encourages children to become aware of actions, phenomena, situations of a moral nature.
Tasks:
1. To acquaint with the concept of "etiquette".
2. Strengthen children's knowledge of polite words.
3. Practice using polite words.
4. To cultivate such qualities as responsiveness, a desire to help others; the desire to please others with good deeds.
Preliminary work:
1. Riddles about etiquette.
2. Memorizing poems about etiquette, polite words.
3. Rules of etiquette at a party.
4. Speech etiquette.
Material for the conversation:
Orders of Kindness and Politeness for each child, made of colored paper.
Conversation progress:
Children enter the hall.
Educator: Hello dear children!
You are the most beautiful person in the world.
Children: (Hello).
Educator: The first words we use to start the day are "Good morning." What do we say with these words, guys?
Children: We wish you fun, happiness, good mood, we want the whole day to be joyful, bright, kind.
Educator: It is extremely important for children to know the rules of communication with others. Here are some rules of speech etiquette.
1. Greet acquaintances when meeting, say goodbye when parting;
2. Use polite words in speech: "thank you", "please", "sorry";
3. Address adults with respect, “you”; not insult other children;
4. Ask for forgiveness for a misconduct;
5. Do not discuss the behavior of strangers, do not sneak;
6. Do not interrupt someone else's conversation;
7. Be able to restrain your negative emotions.
Educator: Children, now let's solve the etiquette riddles.
Riddles about etiquette:
1. I was in a hurry to go to the kindergarten,
Forgot to say hello:
With a best friend and with a neighbor,
And with a passer-by in a conversation.
Offensive consequences
Kohl did not say.
Children: (Greetings)
2. When I was about to leave
You have to be polite.
Goodbye and goodbye
That is the words.
Children: ( Goodbyes)
3. If I'm wrong
Then immediately, without a doubt,
I will apologize
Children: (Apologies)
4. I say "thank you"
So I am.
Children: (Thanks to)
5 ... The bull mowed daisies
And he invited the ram.
That one ate the treat,
But he said: "..."
Children: (Sorry!)
6. Mom and Dad are sitting
Cake with sweets is eaten.
A polite daughter will say:
"Allow me ..."
Children: (Can I help you!)
7. Fat cow Lula
She ate hay and sneezed.
So as not to sneeze again
We will tell her: "..."
Children: (Bless you!)
8. Children Dasha and Egorka
Pizza cheese is grated.
They ask for mice from the hole:
"Give! Be. "
Children: (So kind!)
9. Met a wild boar in the forest
An unfamiliar fox.
Says to the beauty:
“Let me ...
Children: (Introduce yourself!)
Educator: Well done boys! You made me very happy.
And you know, there are many poems about politeness and polite words, and we will learn some of them, but first a physical education minute.
Physical education:
Vanka-vstanka:
Vanka-vstanka, ( Jumping in place)
Squat down. ( Squats.)
How naughty you are!
We can't handle you! ( Clap your hands.)
Up hand and down hand
Up hand and down hand.
Pulled them lightly.
We quickly changed hands!
We are not bored today. ( One straight arm up, the other down, jerk to change hands.)
Clap squat:
Down - clap and up - clap.
We knead our legs, hands,
We know for sure - it will be useful. ( Squats, overhead claps.)
We twist and twist our head
We knead the neck. Stop! ( Rotation of the head to the right and to the left.)
Educator: Now let's learn the rhymes.
1. What is etiquette?
We will now give the answer.
These are the rules
You need to know them from an early age!
2. What is etiquette?
It's possible,
Etiquette like a label
And a good mark
But not only in the diary,
People speak ...
It is very easy to live culturally.
Everything is fine,
Which is not bad.
2. Do not take candy to the kindergarten,
After all, other children are offended.
See off mom calmly
And behave yourself with dignity.
Listen to the teacher
Sleep and eat without orders.
3. If we bake cookies
All friends for a treat
We tell them: “Do not hesitate,
Help yourself to your health! "
4. Being kind is not easy at all
Kindness does not depend on growth.
Kindness does not depend on color,
Kindness is not gingerbread, not candy.
If kindness shines like the sun
Adults and children are happy.
5. What is "hello"?
The best of words.
Because "hello" -
It means “be healthy”.
6. Unearthly beauty,
Take your finger out of your mouth!
Girls and boys,
Don't suck your fingers.
Dear children,
Fingers are not candy.
7. If you become polite
And be educated
They will always and everywhere be
Respect and love you!
8. These words are the most wonderful
Everyone is very happy to hear
Adults and children are getting kinder
And they are in a hurry to smile at you.
Educator: It is extremely important for the guys to know the rules of behavior at a party. You should know that being in someone else's house you must follow the rules of guest etiquette:
1. Come to visit only at the invitation of the hosts;
2. Greet the owners of the house;
3. Do not be late for the appointed time;
4. Observe the rules of communication;
5. Do not touch objects and things in the house without asking;
6. Do not insist on your desires;
7. Observe the rules of conduct at the table;
8. Do not run around the apartment, do not shout, do not litter, do not throw things;
9. Do not stay at a party for a long time;
10. Thank the hosts for their hospitality before leaving.
Educator: I know that all polite people are not evil, they are always smart and kind people and I am sure that you will become the same, and I want to award each of you the Order of Kindness and Politeness. ( I take out and give each child the Order of Kindness and Politeness).
Instead of a conclusion:
The position of a person in society, the course of life directly depends on the perception of those around him as a person. To achieve a respectful, kind attitude towards oneself is subject only to those who follow the rules adopted in society - cultured, educated, polite people. Parents should help the child, at each of the stages of his development, in the assimilation of elementary, but such necessary norms of etiquette. It is important to do this with love and kindness so that the child knows that he always has the support of loved ones and relatives.