Conqueror of women's hearts Soso Pavliashvili: biography, creative activity and family. Pavliashvili's wife forgave him for treason and ... made friends with his mistress! The surname of the wife of Soso Pavliashvili

The singer says that he was a womanizer of an all-Union scale, but his love for Irina turned the Don Juan into an exemplary family man. But the couple did not immediately realize their feelings.

Soso Pavliashvili with his wife and children.

Vladimir Chistyakov

The singer has never been deprived of ladies' attention. And not a single representative of the fair sex, after parting with him, was not offended or angry. Irina Ponarovskaya, with whom the artist lived in a civil marriage, in her interviews speaks of him with warmth, admitting that thanks to him she learned a lot in life. After the divorce from his first official wife, Nino Uchaneishvili, Soso remained on friendly terms with her. Probably the secret is that he is respectful of women and is ready to carry them in his arms. But the love of his life, Irina, he had to first track down, sitting in ambush. True, he'd better tell about it himself.

How did you meet?
Irina Patlakh:“I was sixteen then, I studied in the theater studio of the Palace of Pioneers, in the building of which there was also Soso's studio.”
Soso Pavliashvili:“Once the sound engineer told me that a very beautiful girl came in and asked to rewrite my song“ I am with you ”on her disk. This message intrigued me, because at that time young girls mainly listened to other music, such as, for example, the group "Hands up!". And the fact that the stranger is also beautiful interested me doubly, because then I was a womanizer of an all-Union scale. And I decided to watch her. You could say he was sitting in ambush. Finally she appeared, but, as time has shown, I became the victim. Because I fell in love with her. "

What do you remember about the first meeting?
Irina:“He looked at me like a boa constrictor at a small bird. He has such an amazing energy that he cannot leave anyone, not a single person indifferent. I stood looking at him as if spellbound, thinking little. This was the first impression. Soso turned out to be a very kind, hospitable person, and most importantly, very professional. We immediately developed friendly relations. There was no question of any romantic feelings at that time. "
Soso:“We were united by a love of music. And our communication was based on this ”.
Irina:“Then Soso met my parents. At first, they were wary of him. After all, we have an age difference of sixteen years. But they too quickly fell under his stunning charm. "

Soso, and then, when you began to live with Irina, did the attitude of her dad and mom towards you change?
Soso:"No. They realized that I love her immensely. And such a difference in age is just what you need. "
Irina:“I have wonderful and wise parents. They saw that I was happy with Soso. It was the main thing for them. And what's important: knowing Soso pretty well, they respect him and trust him. We are one big family. "
Soso:“We even have apartments in the same building and on the same floor. Closer to each other. "

Is it true that Irina worked in your musical group?
Soso:“Ira sang and danced splendidly, and I invited her to work in my team. And it's amazing how easily she merged into him, quickly became her own. We had to tour a lot, and at some point we practically never parted. "

Was it then that friendship was replaced by love?
Irina:“It's hard to say when it happened. There was no turning point, unnoticed by us, the relationship spilled over into another stage. "
Soso:“And when we were firmly established in our feelings, I said to Ira: 'You must give birth to me.' I saw that she was ready for this step. And a year later, Liza was born. "

Soso, were you disappointed that a girl was born and not a boy? After all, most men dream of a son.
Soso:"Vice versa. I have a son from my first marriage, I know what it means to be the father of a boy. This is great joy. Now Levan is an adult, and we have a relationship like friends. But when a girl is born, it's completely different. Maybe at twenty-five or thirty years old a man still does not fully realize what an unspeakable happiness it is to be the father of his daughter. They are so affectionate, defenseless and caring from a young age. When I speak on the phone with Lisa and she asks: “Daddy, how are you feeling? Are you all right? "- you have no idea what tenderness fills your heart at this moment."

Soso, since you are not your first child, you probably expected Lisa to appear calmly, as befits an experienced father?
Irina:"Yes you! He was very worried, he was eager to give birth with me. His doctors forced him out of the ward. I still remember how he looked at me then and repeated: “How can you be here without me ?! And I will be there without you ?! " It was very touching, but also funny. On that day, Soso had a concert, the doctors assured him that I would give birth no earlier than five hours later, and he went to the performance. But I "shot" much faster and called my husband to inform that our child had already been born. And going on stage, he said, addressing the audience: "Five minutes ago, my daughter was born!"
Soso:"These are unforgettable moments, and what was happening in my soul, it is generally impossible to convey in words."

Traditionally, the birth of your second daughter was also met on stage?
Soso:"No. At that moment I was in St. Petersburg. And when Irochka called me, I got on the plane, intending to fly to Moscow. The first reaction is surprise. We only talked in the morning, she was going somewhere - either shopping, or for some business ... But that she was about to give birth, there was not even a conversation. "
Irina:“Just remembering the commotion caused by the first birth, I decided not to bother anyone. And without saying a word to anyone, I packed up and went to the hospital. And I was calm, because my loved ones were not nervous, and the surprise was wonderful. "

And who invented names for the children?
Soso:“We named the eldest daughter Elizabeth, because I always liked the name Liza. But with the youngest it turned out more interesting. We assumed that we would have a boy. And they were going to call him Sandro. Then Ira, returning from the ultrasound, said that we would have another girl. It is worth noting that this news made me very happy. Another daughter, you can only dream of it! True, we decided not to change the name that we wanted to give the baby, but to take its female version - Sandra. "
Irina:“It is noteworthy that Lisa had a favorite doll, with which she played more often than with other toys. And she called her Sandra - long before we knew that she would have a sister. "

Irina, men often talk about their fatherly feelings, but they rarely take care of children in fact ...
Irina:“This is not about Soso. He's a crazy father. I am ready to protect children even from me if I am too strict. And I have to be like that when it comes to serious parenting issues, such as school homework. Lisa is very stubborn. And in order to get her to do her homework, you have to be harsh. This responsibility lies with me, because Soso does not want to spoil the relationship with the children. Honestly, I understand him and am already thinking about hiring a professional teacher who would work with my daughter. I want to be a mom, not a teacher. Moreover, the current school curriculum is very confusing and less systematized than the one by which we studied. The kids now have a much harder time. In addition, Soso knows how to create an amazing atmosphere around children, they feel that they are growing in love and care. It's one thing to say “I have a daddy”, and another thing to feel it, even when your father is away. They always feel his attention and warmth. "
Soso:“Just the other day I returned from a tour, called home from the airport. Lisa was sick. The voice is sad. I said to her: “My girl, what should I bring you? Do you want flowers? "She:" Yes, I do. " Me: “What flowers do you want?” She: “Red roses”. And I brought a huge bouquet. By the way, Lisa accepts gifts very nicely. In general, the girls are used to the fact that I give them flowers and their mother. "
Irina:"Yes. We don't have to wait for the holidays for gifts and bouquets. I have always sympathized with those women whose men only pay attention to them on March 8th. In our family, this holiday lasts all year round. And Soso, in order to prepare a surprise for us, is not looking for any reason, he pleases us just like that. "
Soso:“In fact, it gives me pleasure to do something pleasant for Irochka and my daughters. The main thing for me is to see their smiles, their eyes when they receive any gift or flowers. "

So you spoil the girls?
Irina:“No, we just love them. And it does not harm them. When they see such an attitude towards themselves, it becomes natural for them to take care of their loved ones. For example, I really do not like to get up early in the morning, it was very difficult for me to get up early to get Lisa to school. And suddenly my daughter began to set herself an alarm clock, wake up, going to school, and I just cook her breakfast. The baby wants to give me the opportunity to sleep longer. And besides, he shows independence. She is eight years old, and she is already trying to take care of her parents. "

Irina, you are a psychologist by training, but you do not work in your specialty. Is it related to family life?
Irina:"No. I deliberately chose the profession, it is very interesting, psychologists really provide significant help to those who need it. But, alas, as practice shows, in our country people prefer to cry into a pillow or talk about their problems to friends and girlfriends, instead of turning to a psychologist who will help resolve this or that situation. This specialty is not in demand in our country, as it seemed to me. "

And I thought it was your spouse who decided to tie you to the house ...
Soso:"No. And if she herself wanted to stay at home, I would kick her out so that she could take care of herself and what is interesting to her. She is young, beautiful, full of ideas and creative plans, she needs to realize her plans. For example, now she is interested in design. "

Design is a very unusual occupation for a psychologist ...
Irina:“Since childhood, I have loved to draw and make some kind of decorations. I remember waving baubles that were fashionable at that time for myself and my friends. But I didn't manage to realize this hobby before, and I didn't even think about it. But when Soso and I bought an apartment and began to think over how our housing would look like, I was inspired. Of course, it was not without the participation of professional designers, from whom I learned a lot, but I thought out some elements myself. "
Soso:“In addition, we ordered most of the finishing materials abroad - thanks to the fact that Irochka speaks fluent English. As a result, it cost us several times cheaper than if we bought everything in Russia. "

Soso, probably, also took part in choosing the interiors for the new home?
Irina:“At the initial stage, yes. We knew in principle what we wanted. But when they tried to explain to each other in detail, they did not find understanding. For example, Soso said: "I want a burgundy bedroom." Go and understand what it means: a burgundy ceiling or burgundy walls ... I thought: my God, if you make the whole room in this color, some kind of horror will turn out! She began to create in her own way, because of which we argued a lot. It turned out a bedroom in grayish-beige tones, and added burgundy due to pillows and bedspreads. When Soso saw the result, he said: "Here, this is exactly what I wanted." And since during the renovation it turned out that I was pregnant with my second child, he generally said that he would not argue with me anymore, the main thing was my peace of mind ”.

But you have already celebrated a housewarming for a long time. What about design skills now?
Irina:“My husband is a very attentive and empathetic person. Soso noticed how much I was carried away by this activity. Therefore, when he, together with his partners, began to engage in the restaurant business, they entrusted me to develop the design of this institution. You can't even imagine how happy I was. It was so interesting! Fortunately, the restaurant is located not far from our house, so I managed to take care of my family, home, and my project. They say it turned out well. "
Soso:“It turned out great! True, I never doubted for a moment that you would do just fine. Our restaurant has good cuisine, but when people come to such a place, it is very important what the environment is, it creates the atmosphere of the institution. I am proud to say that my wife invented and created this. Believe me, Irochka’s success is no less important to me than my own, and sometimes even more important. ”
Irina: “Now this is our favorite place. We spend all family holidays here. We can say, a branch of our house for business meetings and gala dinners. "

By the way, since the conversation turned to cuisine, Soso grew up in Tbilisi, and Georgia is famous for its traditional dishes. Irina, you were not forced to comprehend the wisdom of national cuisine?
Irina:"No. When my husband's mother comes to us (by the way, she is just visiting us), she spoils us with Georgian dishes. And so ... We have no food cult in our family. We are simply happy when everyone is together at the same table, regardless of what dishes we have for lunch or dinner. True, I'll tell you a secret: we have a special menu for the time that Soso is on tour. The fact is that after being fed fish oil as a child, he hates fish. In the literal sense of the word, she does not tolerate her, he gets sick from the smell of a fish being prepared. So we came up with a good compromise. We are introducing fish days while our head of the family is on tour. "

Soso, you yourself admitted that you were a womanizer. How did you part with this "life credo"?
Soso:“It's just that everything I need is in my wife. Why do I need someone else? I have already found the woman I was looking for, with whom I want to live my life. And my main concern is to make her feel good. I will not do anything to hurt her. Therefore, the fascination with women is a thing of the distant past. "

They say it's very difficult to be an artist's wife ...
Soso:“It seems to me that we do not have such a problem, because I am an artist on stage, and after finishing the concert, I leave the microphone behind the scenes and return home just as a man, husband and father. Yes, there are people who, having entered the image, get stuck in it and never part with it. Therefore, they have problems both in their personal life and in everyday communication with people. I have a clear line: here is work, there is life. Therefore I am happy. "

It is believed that creative people are extremely impulsive ...
Irina:“For example, I am also emotional and impulsive. It happens that I get hooked on some trifle, I sucked the problem out of my finger, and I am getting ready to tell my husband everything that I have clocked in my head. And Soso is so sensitive that he easily picks up this state of mine. He comes up at such a moment with the right words, and it immediately disarms. And it already seems silly and ridiculous to me that five minutes ago seemed a reason for conflict. By the way, he inherited such a strong intuition from his mother. "

So you don't fight at all?
Irina:“Why does it happen… Is there a family life without disagreements, especially if people really love each other and, therefore, react sharply to some events, words, feelings of their half ?! And plus mutual trust, which allows you to throw out what has accumulated when communicating with the outside world. Someone offended or rude, some difficulties in business ... Before whom to expose the painful, if not in front of a loved one? "
Soso:“Yes, our family has a perimeter defense. I try to protect my girls - Ira, Lisa and Sandra - from the outside, and Ira - from the inside. "
Irina:“But even when we quarrel, which is rare, everything goes smoothly. The maximum that can happen is to break a plate on the floor. So it’s for luck! But we have a sacred rule: we never conflict with our daughters, we don't even raise our voice in their presence. "

Irina, do you have to be jealous of your husband?
Irina:“I'm only jealous of him for football. He loves him too much. "
Soso:“And Ira does not delight in it ... But she tolerates this hobby of mine. I, however, do not have any fanatical predilections for this or that club. I just love the beautiful and addictive game. I like it when there are talented players on the pitch. By the way, my daughters watch matches with me, but they don't sit for the whole ninety minutes. Although when they were very young, I took them in my arms and watched the championships with them. "

You are in a civil marriage. Are you going to formalize the relationship?
Soso:“We didn't need this stamp in our passport yet. We are a family anyway, without any official papers. But it is quite possible that we will sign ... I want you to understand, the main thing is that certain relationships arise between people. We are connected by something that many who do not have a marriage certificate in their hands. We have love, respect, family. And all of this actually exists, albeit without "documentary" confirmation. "

And there are good reasons for that. For ten years now, the heart of the "singer of love" has been given to one single woman - the former dancer and singer of the musical group Pavliashvili and just a wonderful person - Irina Patlakh. Two years ago, their daughter Lisa was born. Now in their family there is complete harmony. But it was preceded by a whole series of trials, misunderstandings and gossip.

Soso and Irina overcame all difficulties and today in the MOST exclusive interview to our portal tell in detail about their relationship - without hesitation and hesitation.

- Tell us about your first impressions, how you saw each other ...

Irina: Tell me!

Soso: No, tell me! Come on, come on!

Irina: It was in the palace of pioneers, where I went to study in a drama studio. Soso's studio was and is still located nearby. Once I saw him, I decided to get an autograph. She came up and said: "Hello!" He sat with his back to me. And so slowly, slowly turned. With a serious face - and broke into a smile. And I thought: “Here, he is so cool! Not pretentious! "

Soso: Although Ira was very young, I immediately noticed that she was a very beautiful girl, I saw her roundness. I remember she was standing on some kind of huge heels that looked like irons - then such a platform was in fashion. And at first I thought: “Crazy! But delicious! " She was sixteen then. And after the first minutes of communication, something else touched me. This girl, a representative of the new generation, said that she was madly in love with my songs, especially one of the most lyrical songs - "I'm with you!"

Irina: Basically, I came to ask you to give me the soundtrack of this song, because I also sang and wanted to ask permission to perform this song.

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Soso: I was very pleased. Because then everyone was totally listening to "Affectionate May", but now a young girl comes up and just asks for good music. Don't think, I'm not praising myself: it's just that the music I write comes from outer space, I let it pass through myself. Something worse, something better ...

- Which of you was the first to be active in relationships?

Soso: As a man, of course, I was the first to take the initiative. But as a girl, for her part, Irina was also not idle. It was obvious to me that our interest in each other was mutual.

Irina: Oh! He was very proactive! But I, as far as possible, held back this initiative. It wasn't easy though (smiles).

- Soso, what did you like most about Ira?

Soso: Her parents! When I met with her family, I realized that they are very advanced, modern people. And somehow we became friends without much effort. If not for this, Irishka and I would not have stayed together.

- And what struck you with Soso?

Irina: I remember how on the first day I stayed in the studio, when he was recording the song "Me and You". We sat until the night, and I talked with his musicians, watched him. Then I realized what a fine fellow he is, what a creative person and what he does in music. This attracted me a lot. Only in this way I realized what an expressive and bright man he is.

- Did you make him any surprises?

Irina: At first we communicated as if we were going on reconnaissance. Everything was interesting to me in this adult man, artist. For my part, I tried to somehow amaze him, to make him laugh. I came to the concert disguised as a journalist and pretended to be interviewing him.

- What about the distance between you?

Irina: He was too temperamental, and I had to restrain this pressure. But there was a pleasant feeling - that he was delighted with me.

- Weren't you afraid that he has a lot of women, a lot of experience and a lot of fans?

Irina: Why should it scare me? (smiles) On the contrary, I was pleased that he chose me among all the fans. And why do I need an abandoned man that no one needs? On the contrary, I relied on his experience, and the development of our relationship was interesting to me. It was immediately obvious that he was a sincere person, that there would be no meanness from him. And everything else is wonderful when there is real passion, romance between people!

- Why did you need such a young girl? Couldn't you have chosen a more experienced lady?

Soso: If we're talking about sex now, then I can sleep with anyone. But Irka was special. I can't even draw parallels. She became for me more than just a girl whose location I sought. I was pleased to feel her spontaneity. This girl had a sincere reciprocal feeling towards me, she was all at a glance. And I, along with a purely male interest, from the first minutes of communication with her felt responsibility for her as an elder. It was an unusual, wonderful feeling for me. Our relationship developed not only as a whirlwind romance, but also as a friendship. She was interested with me, and me - with her.

Irina: It was during this period of serious courtship that Soso began to have health problems. And then I no longer doubted that he needed him.

Soso: I could call at three in the morning, say that I feel bad, and not even hint: come! She herself came. Despite her beautiful rounded shapes (smiles), Ira still turned out to be a real friend. And I needed this friendship much more than sex. Ira will not let her lie: I then tried my best to make sure that she did not get used to me. Not really attached. I considered myself a lone wolf, a person around whom there are too many problems. And I did not want her to constantly enter the circle of these problems. But Irka is stubborn by nature, and I cannot defeat this stubbornness even now. If she sets herself a goal, she will simply achieve it.

- So which of you sought the location?

Soso: I achieved what tore off her "bud", and she achieved this state: today Irochka and I and our little daughter are a real family.

- Ira, did you boast to your friends that you had an affair with Pavliashvili?

Irina: And I never had real girlfriends. Most of my peers are not very motivated people, many have ended up in bad companies. And I did not share my life with them, because we were, as it were, from different planets.

Soso: But I also had a hand in ensuring that all her friends leave us alone. Because even those few friends who surrounded her usually called when they had difficulties of a different nature. And I just sent them all in three letters (smiles). The two of us. And we don't need anyone in life. Irka, indeed, in education and intelligence differed from her peers. And one of our first conversations with her parents was about this. I said: “Look at her classmates, peers! Do you want her to follow their path? To watch them smoke or drink beer at the entrance? Let her be better with me, learn a lot from me, be protected! "

- Did they believe you?

Believe it! May God grant them health that they entrusted their daughter to me, although there was no question of any guarantees. The question of marriage was not even discussed. But I felt a huge responsibility for Ira. I just couldn't offend her under any circumstances. She was not just my friend - she was a daughter, a child ... And she trusted me much more than her parents.

- Was Ira the only one for you at that time?

No one dared to encroach on my personal freedom. I continued to date women. But, apparently, such a serious feeling was already arising in me, which I myself did not understand at first. Irka has already become truly dear to me. And if I were an ordinary pop singer, I would not care what happens to this girl. But I just had no right to offend her. I needed her loyalty.

- So your relationship did not develop immediately?

Gradually, with tests. When I didn’t have a penny of money, but only problems, I told her: “You are a young beautiful girl, your father is a wealthy person, plays tennis with Yeltsin, works in prestigious places ... You will find your happiness, you will go abroad ... Don't get attached to me. It is forbidden! I am a man without tomorrow. " At that time I had just such a feeling of life.

- How did Ira react to this?

She replied: “But I am not interested in tomorrow. I live for today. I'm happy with you today! " And she did not leave me. And then gradually everything began to take shape a little bit. You know, in principle, I deserved a good attitude: after all, I was not a drug addict, alcoholic, psychopath. I am an artist who needs understanding. And I am grateful to this young stubbornness and loyalty of her (smiles).

- Really for so long she did not give reason to be jealous? After all, a young girl loves to be mischievous, flirt, flirt ...

By horoscope I am Cancer. Jealousy is the lot of every Cancer. And this is normal. If you don’t love, you don’t get jealous. We've been together for ten years. And, probably, outbursts of jealousy do not allow us to fall asleep and miss each other. Jealousy is a good paint in a relationship. Orgasm from jealousy is brighter. And I don't even think about treason!

- We can say that you helped Ira take an adult look at the relationship between a man and a woman?

Irka has such a character: she wanted to show herself in front of me. Not even as a woman, but as a teenager. And I had to be patient to bring up her, as I brought up my son Levan. And this is no longer just a relationship between a man and a woman, but a completely different approach. There was a time: I both put pressure on her and showed aggressiveness. But now, looking back, I understand: if I had not done this, we would not have been together.

- Did Ira have enough wisdom not to be offended and not to accumulate resentment?

God forbid! She's too determined. She just wanted to be with me and nothing else mattered. I did not understand then why she needed it. And now I am grateful to her for her patience and natural wisdom: we are all happy people together. And this is our common world. And Lisa is with us.

- It is believed that each song of the composer is a love story. Some composers say that all songs in their lives are dedicated to one woman. And how are you?

If tomorrow I say: “Ira, I don’t recognize any woman except you!” - she spits in my face. My work belongs to all people. My songs are my heart. And I put my whole male being there. Ira looks at it absolutely correctly. I would like women to always believe me and cry only with happiness. All my songs are written for this. Irka was always proud that women love me and trust me. She herself is always for women, in any conflict she takes the female side - so that no one oppresses them, does not humiliate them.

- How did Ira find a common language with Levan?

They were not looking for a common language, they just grew up together. Ira, Levan and Irkin's brother Dan. And when it came time to explain something, I sat Levan next to me, asked: "Do you want me to be happy?" He said yes. And then I said: "Wait for my sister."

- Who made the decision to live together as one family? And how did you decide to live with Ira's parents?

And we like it! And we found a common language a long time ago. And now, when the opportunity has arisen to build a family country house, where everything is good and spacious, this is generally fine. Ira's mother, Larissa, bought a piano especially for me, because I miss my piano, which was left in my apartment. We also go on vacation with the whole family. And we are very good together. Now I have my own pack.

- Can we say that you brought the traditions of the Georgian family to your girlfriend's family?

Of course! I am a Tbilisi person. And in Moscow, I really missed such a family life. My heart remained in Tbilisi. And the more friendly we live, the better! We are now building new apartments in Moscow, and I also intend to move my mom and dad from Tbilisi.

- What determines the intensity of passions in the family? How not to get bored with each other in a relationship?

Soso: It only depends on the woman! If I wake up in the morning and every day wonder how terrible she is, I'd better run away from her altogether. Why do men start looking for something somewhere? Because they see no joy in their lair.

- At the beginning of your relationship, Ira danced and sang in a team. Now she has completely forgotten about the creative activity?

Soso: We came up with this creative activity later, so that there was something to do (smiles). And at first I just fell in love with her as a man. I had a simple desire to possess a beautiful girl. Well, then I did everything so that this beautiful woman would be with me as much as possible - both on tour and in Moscow.

Irina: I have not ceased to be a creative person. I like to sing and dance. And in Moscow now I again perform with Soso, and we go on tour together when there is an opportunity to take Lisa with us, and the conditions allow us to live as a family.

- Soso, are you a happy man?

As a man, I am absolutely happy. I know that I not only get happiness, but also bring happiness and pleasure to my loved ones. The main thing is that I am not alone, as I was several years ago.

- Ira, and you?

I have the same feelings and thoughts. But I would like to realize myself more in creativity. Now I am a beloved mother, beloved daughter, beloved woman. Everything is great with me. But still, I really love to sing and I want to do it further. But this does not mean that I want to become a pop star ...

Soso: You are already a star! Trust my word ...

Irina: You are witnessing an incipient family scandal ... (exchanging glances, laughing)

- What can you wish for couples who are just starting to live together?

Soso: Don't look for yourself. Everything will come by itself. I believe that any two people can get along with each other if they are united by the main goal - to be together. If someone does not want to give in, but wants to prove something, this is the cause of all conflicts. At the beginning of my life together, I had a conversation with Ira: if we want to be together, we will be together. And if we don’t want to, then we don’t need to torture each other. And it's not about the child, not about some kind of responsibility: if you don't want to live with a person, you shouldn't do it.

Irina: The mistake of many young people who start life together is that they are trying to figure everything out “on the shore”, proving something to each other, forgetting about compromises. There is no need to run in front of the locomotive, no need to invent conflicts when there are none. Let everything go by itself. You just need to be able to enjoy each other.

The now popular singer Soso Pavliashvili, a violin graduate of the Tbilisi Conservatory, became interested in the light genre when he served in the air force of the Soviet army. Then he became a member of the well-known VIA "Iveria", and then went on a free voyage along the waves of pop music to start writing his own songs.

Pavliashvili is 53 years old and he is a father of many children. The singer's eldest child was born in his first marriage. Levan is already thirty, and now his famous dad calls the guy more often a friend than a son.

Two daughters were presented to him by the artist Irina Patlakh, with whom Soso still lives. When they met, she was only 16, and he was already 32 two. Now both say that at first they were strong friends, and joke that right up to her, Irina, coming of age. They have been happy for many years, two daughters are growing up in the family. Lisa is 13, and Sandra will soon be ten years old. The singer introduced his loved ones to the audience of the “When Everybody's Home” program. Pavliashvili loves his girls. They are certainly clever and beautiful, but Soso appreciates his wife not only for this. According to the singer, he owes his life to Irina.

In 1996, Pavliashvili got into a car accident, after which he began to have severe epileptic seizures that lasted for several years. It was then that Soso realized that Irina was "his wolf."

“There comes a moment when you understand - this woman is your wolf ... I had a serious accident in 1996, and at 97 I started epilepsy and lasted 7 years. And Ira was with me. Although if she left - I would say and did the right thing. I myself said: “go away, why do you need me like that,” Soso Pavliashvili said.

Irina recalls those years without hiding, although she admits that it was not easy. Attacks, as Pavliashvili's wife said, happened only at night and when he woke up he did not understand what had happened to him. And ten minutes before the next attack, Soso began to talk like a demoniac with someone - "like in horror films" - adds Irina. But the woman did not have even a moment of doubt, she says that she never once thought of leaving her beloved.

“Then he had no time for anything - neither for family, nor for love, nor for me. But I knew that my love would be enough for both of us, ”said Irina.

// Photo: frame of the program "When everyone is at home"

Despite the illness, the couple decided to have a child. Now the eldest of the daughters - Lisa - is called by the singer a guardian angel. Pavliashvili associates his healing with her birth. “The most important thing is that after her birth, I was cured. And completely without the intervention of doctors. But they even wanted to do craniotomy for me. But then Liza was born and everything passed as if nothing had happened, ”Soso Pavliashvili said.

Irina Patlakh is a young woman of 37 years old. She is a former backing vocalist of the Mironi group and sometimes performs with her husband as a dancer. What is known about the wife of Soso Pavliashvili? Under what circumstances did they meet and how did their relationship develop?

The singer's first marriage

Soso Pavliashvili lived with his first wife for 18 years. He met Nino Uchaneishvili in Tbilisi even before he became a popular singer. In marriage, a son was born, who studied at the Suvorov School and graduated from the Military Technical University. For some time, the woman did not know that her husband had another. She and her son lived in Tbilisi, and Soso often traveled to Moscow. The man called his wife with him, but she could not leave and leave her sick mother.

After a while, news began to appear in the media that the singer had a second wife. Soso Pavliashvili began dating a dancer in the capital. Soon, the beloved began to live together.

Soso Pavliashvili's second wife - Irina

Irina Patlakh was born in 1981. The popular singer met the girl when he was 33 years old. At that time, Ira was barely 16, after the concert she went to the singer for an autograph. Pavliashvili was seriously carried away by the girl, fortunately, her parents were not against such a relationship. The age difference between Soso Pavliashvili and his wife Irina is about 16 years.

The singer's first wife did not comment on her husband's betrayal for a long time, but when she could no longer be silent, she directly asked her husband about her mistress. At first, Soso Pavliashvili did not confirm the assumptions of his wife, but after a while he packed his bags and went to his young wife Irina.

The second wife of Soso Pavliashvili (there is a photo of the woman in the article) gave birth to two daughters to the popular singer. In December 2004, the girl Lisa, and after another 4 years, Sandra.

Spouse support

As it turned out, in 1996, Soso Pavliashvili had a serious accident, after which he suffered from epilepsy for 7 years. The young wife was there all this time and supported the man. According to Pavliashvili, he repeatedly persuaded the woman to leave him, but Irina did not give up and helped her husband not to lose faith in a bright future.

The wife herself said in an interview that these years were perhaps the most difficult in her life. But during all this time she never once thought about leaving her husband. According to Irina, epileptic seizures appeared at night and the husband himself could not understand what was happening to him. Before the onset of each new attack of the disease, he talked in his sleep.

Despite the acute course of the disease in Soso, the beloved still decided to have a child. Born in 2004, the baby was able to become a guardian angel for the singer. As Soso Pavliashvili himself says, it was after the birth of Lisa that he began to recover and, as a result, his epileptic seizures stopped. He was cured without any medical intervention. Although he was going to do craniotomy.

with Irina

Despite the excellent relationship of the couple, officially Soso Pavliashvili is still not Irina's legal spouse. Three and a half years ago, in October 2014, at his own concert, the singer offered his beloved woman his hand and heart in front of a million viewers, but the solemn event did not take place.

According to Soso, they are going to get married, but the exact date of the event has not yet been specified. Irina assured in one of her interviews that there would be no big wedding, but the painting and the wedding would certainly take place. The event dedicated to the official wedding will most likely take place in Moscow. By the way, this year the relationship between Soso Pavliashvili and Irina turns 20 years old. The lovers are busy raising children and preparing to move to a new country house, the renovation of which has almost come to an end.

Joseph (Soso) Raminovich Pavliashvili (Georgian იოსებ (სოსო) რამინის ძე პავლიაშვილი). Born June 29, 1964 in Tbilisi. Soviet, Georgian and Russian pop singer, composer, theater and film actor.

Father - Ramin Iosifovich Pavliashvili, architect.

Mother - Aza Alexandrovna Pavliashvili (nee - Kustova), a fabric technologist by profession.

From an early age he showed an attraction to music, he showed perfect hearing and a good voice. From the age of six he studied violin. Later he graduated from the Tbilisi Conservatory in violin, and at the final exams he received the highest score and became one of the most famous graduates of this musical university.

After demobilization, he decided to pursue a career as a singer. He became a member of the Tbilisi vocal and instrumental ensemble "Iveria", with which he performed for a year. He performed with the team in front of Soviet athletes at the 1988 Winter Olympics in Calgary, Canada.

Participation in the 4th All-Union Television Contest of Young Performers of Soviet Pop Songs in Jurmala became a triumphant one for Soso Pavliashvili. On July 8, 1989, Soso Pavliashvili won the Grand Prix. It is worth noting that he sang the song "Homeland" ("Samshoblo"), in which he glorified the independence of Gruia, ie. played up to the separatist sentiments and the focus on the republic's secession from the USSR.

And his patroness was a singer, popular at that time, who was on the jury of the competition in Jurmala. A year later, the Georgian singer burst onto the Russian stage. He often performed as a duet with Ponarovskaya.

In 1992 he won the Grand Prix of the Step to Parnassus festival.

In 1993 he released his debut album Music to Friends, which was a success. Then the albums "Sing with me" and "Me and you" were released.

His songs were actively rotated on TV, finding their listeners in different age categories. The famous dancer Mahmud Esambaev called Pavliashvili "The Tuning Fork of Georgia".

In 2000 he received the Grand Prix of the Baltic Music Festival in Sweden.

Has its own recording studio.

With varying degrees of success, released in the 2000s the albums "About my love", "A Georgian is waiting for you!" ". He shot popular video clips for the songs "A Georgian is waiting for you", "He", "Take your love", "Baby, ai love yu", "Russia" (duet with Tamara Gverdtsiteli).

As a rule, Soso Pavliashvili is the author of the music he performs on stage. But sometimes he brings in other composers to create his songs. So, the singer fruitfully collaborated with Mikhail Tanich, Ilya Reznik, Simon Osiashvili, Georgy Karapetyan, Konstantin Gubin, Karen Kavaleryan and others.

Soso Pavliashvili - White Veil

Soso Pavliashvili played the main role in the play "The White Knight" based on the novel by Marquis de Sade. A famous actress became his partner.

Since 1997, he began acting in films, making his debut in the musical-crime comedy "The Newest Adventures of Buratino" based on the tale of A. Tolstoy with and in the lead roles.

Later he appeared in the films "33 square meters" (Hans), "Ice Age" (Givi), "Lost the Sun" (Kardava), "Daddy's Daughters" (Timur), "Golden Key" (carpenter Giuseppe), "New Adventures of Aladdin "(Merchant), etc.

Soso Pavliashvili in the series "Ice Age"

In 2016, he starred in the crime drama "Swing", in which he played a thieves' boss named Maho. The tape tells the story of the confrontation between two thieves' clans.

According to Soso, he bears great resemblance to his character: “Makho is close to me for various reasons. Firstly, it’s romance for me. I was born and raised in Tbilisi, and, like a normal Tbilisi guy, from childhood I dreamed of becoming a crime boss. Thanks to the film, my dream has come true. Secondly, my character has a craving for justice, he is not alien to the concepts of honor and truth. By this, Maho corresponds to my personal principles. And thirdly, it turned out that the character was written especially for me. "

Soso Pavliashvili in the series "Swing"

Soso Pavliashvili scandals

In the summer of 2004, the singer, along with other famous Russian artists, performed with a concert program in the territory of Nagorno-Karabakh. The Ministry of Culture and Tourism of the Republic of Azerbaijan assessed this act of Russian artists as "a negative fact, damaging the constantly developing Azerbaijani-Russian cultural ties." Pavliashvili was banned from radio and television of the republic, he was also banned from giving concerts in Baku.

In October 2016, the Azerbaijani media reported that Soso Pavliashvili and singer Timur Temirov, having addressed the Azerbaijani Foreign Ministry with a letter, asked to cancel the ban on entry to the republic in force against them. In the letter, the artists expressed respect for the Azerbaijani people, their culture and music, highly appreciating the traditions of hospitality in Azerbaijan, and also expressed a desire to visit Baku soon and perform there with concert programs. After consideration in the appropriate order of this appeal, Soso Pavliashvili and Timur Temirov were given permission to enter Azerbaijan.

On November 30, 2016, Pavliashvili performed at the Heydar Aliyev Palace in Baku with a solo charity concert organized by Emin Agalarov. On July 30, 2017, Pavliashvili performed at the Heat International Music Festival in Baku.

In March 2013, the media reported that the singer could stand trial. Earlier, Georgian law enforcement agencies issued an arrest warrant for Soso Pavliashvili on charges of contract murder of his longtime friend, businessman Avtandil Aduashvili. In addition to Soso Pavliashvili himself, charges were brought against six more people. After a lengthy trial, the case against Soso Pavliashvili was dropped. The Georgian Prosecutor's Office dropped all charges against him.

Soso Pavliashvili works in Moscow, lives in Tbilisi and Moscow.

Soso Pavliashvili - Secret for a Million

Soso Pavliashvili's growth: 178 centimeters.

Personal life of Soso Pavliashvili:

First wife - Nino Uchaneishvili (born in 1965). They got married in 1985.

As Soso said, the first marriage was early and therefore family life did not work out. He recalled: “When we got together, I was 19 years old, and Nino was 18 - young, hot, succumbed to euphoria. Then I went to the army, wrote her five letters a day. When I served, I got married, Levan was born, but I had to to go to Moscow, I had to build a career. She was listed as my wife only in the passport, we stopped living as husband and wife ... Our parting is fate, it was so necessary. "

Since the late 1980s, they no longer lived together, although they officially divorced only in 2003.

In 2002, when his son Levan was 15 years old, Soso decided to take him to Moscow. Levan Iosifovich Pavliashvili studied at the Suvorov School, then graduated from the Military-Technical University under the Federal Agency for Special Construction (FGOU VPO "VTU at Spetsstroy Russia"). He is engaged in the construction business.

In the early 1990s, he had a whirlwind romance with the popular singer Irina Ponarovskaya, who opened the way for him to the big stage. They began to sing a duet, the whole country was talking about their romance. Soso noted that Ponarovskaya made a great contribution to his formation as a singer. “We did a lot for each other, we had a very stormy relationship, we kindled each other. Ponarovskaya became a queen next to me,” he said.

According to rumors, Ponarovskaya was counting on marriage with Pavliashvili, waiting for an offer from Soso. Himself: "I have never deceived a single woman in my life. I have never made promises in my life, so that later these promises can not be kept."

The second wife (civil marriage) - Irina Patlakh (born in 1981), a psychologist by education, although she did not work by profession. She was a backing vocalist of the Mironi group, and also occasionally performed with Soso as a dancer.

Together since 1997. We met when Irina was 16 years old - she studied in the theater studio of the Palace of Pioneers, in the building of which Soso's studio was located. Pavliashvili recalled: “Once the sound engineer told me that a very beautiful girl came in and asked to rewrite my song“ I'm with you. ”This message intrigued me ... And the fact that the stranger is also beautiful interested me doubly, since then I was a womanizer of an all-Union scale. And I decided to watch for her. One might say, I was sitting in ambush. Finally she appeared, but, as time has shown, I became the victim. Because I fell in love with her. "

In addition, the acquaintance with Irina Patlakh happened at a time when the singer was in a difficult psychological situation. In 1996, in Tbilisi, he had an accident. He said: "My drunken friend was driving. He started wild aggression, and I realized that I shouldn't let go of one. We drove home, a woman in black with a child suddenly appeared on the road. Nobody understood where she came from, there was no crossing on this section of the road. A friend turned abruptly to the side, and the car crashed into the curb at breakneck speed. A strong blow, and that was all - passed out. I woke up in the hospital, I had a severe concussion, and there was no scratch on the driver. was treated, I was regularly examined, and the doctors themselves allowed to continue touring. A year after the accident, epileptic seizures began. I began to go to church often. Apparently, God heard my prayers and sent me Irochka. "

For 7 years, the singer could not get rid of seizures. They, he said, passed when the couple had a child.

On December 4, 2004, a daughter, Lisa, was born to Soso and Irina. On June 2, 2008, a daughter, Sandra, was born.

As Soso said, they do not need a stamp in their passport: "We are a family anyway, without any official papers." However, on October 16, 2014, at a concert in Moscow, Irina and her two daughters took the stage to Pavliashvili. The singer knelt in front of his beloved and presented her with a box with a wedding ring.

Filmography of Soso Pavliashvili:

1997 - The newest adventures of Pinocchio
1998-2005 - 33 square meters - Hans
2002 - Ice Age - Givi, bandit, Guram's assistant
2003 - At the corner at Patriarch's-3 - Soso Pavliashvili, singer
2003 - A friendly family - cameo
2004 - Lost the Sun - Kardava
2006 - 1st Fast - episode
2007 - Kingdom of Crooked Mirrors
2008 - Daddy's daughters - Timur, friend of Vasily Fedotov
2008 - My favorite witch
2009 - The Golden Key - Carpenter Giuseppe
2010 - The Last Secret of the Master - episode (not in the credits)
2010 - New Year's matchmakers
2011 - Kiss Through the Wall - cameo
2011 - New Adventures of Aladdin - merchant
2011 - New Year SMS
2012 - 8 first dates - cameo
2016 - Swing - Maho

Discography of Soso Pavliashvili:

1993 - Music for Friends
1996 - Sing with me
1998 - "Me and You"
2001 - "About my love"
2003 - "A Georgian is waiting for you!"
2005 - "The best songs for you"
2007 - "Remember the Georgian"
2010 - "Oriental Songs"
2013 - "The Best"
2014 - "Caucasian"
2014 - "Jubilee"