Lydia ramming TV presenter. Lydia Taran: A meaningless life is not for me

Millions of TV viewers adore this sweet and charming blonde, with whom the whole country "woke up" on channel 1 + 1 in the "Breakfast" program. - one of the few girls on Ukrainian television who were able to "hold out" in the profession for many years and continue to be one of the most popular presenters. In the biography of Taran, there is a very interesting fact: the girl was born into a family of journalists. Parents were constantly not at home, which is why Lida hated journalism from childhood, but after graduating from school she decided to continue her parents' work!

Lida is a native of Kiev, she was born in 1977. Since the parents did not devote much time to the child, Taran began to skip school. Unlike other children who roamed around the courtyards, Lydia spent her "free" time efficiently: she sat for hours in the reading room of the library, located not far from the house. After school, which, despite absenteeism, Taran graduated with good grades, she tried to enter the Faculty of International Relations, but failed the exams. The girl faced a difficult choice and thought for a long time where she could prove herself. Nothing but journalism came to mind. When the parents found out that their daughter had followed in their footsteps, the father said that he would not help her, although he had many acquaintances at the institute.

Later, Lida admitted that her parents really never helped her, but she succeeded, unlike other classmates. During her studies, she worked part-time on the radio, and then she was accepted on television, and this transition was completely unexpected. The building next to the radio station housed the studio of the New Channel. Taran asked a passing worker where to find out about vacancies. So at the age of 21, Lida became an employee of a very famous channel. The girl had little choice but asked to be given the opportunity to work in sports news. The management then advised Lida to gain experience first.

However, quite by accident, Andrei Kulikov, one of the most famous TV journalists, returned to the capital, and Taran was paired with him! According to Lida, at that time she felt so happy that she was ready to work practically for free. And when Lida found out that she was going to pay decent money for the broadcast, she literally went crazy from such a dizzying take-off. In 2009, Lida switched to the 1 + 1 channel, where she hosted such popular programs as Breakfast and I Love Ukraine. Later she became a member of the popular project "I Dance for You" and the owner of the prestigious Teletriumph award. It is very important for Taran to try herself in something new and interesting, so she does not classify herself as one of the group of those presenters who have been working in only one direction for 10-20 years, for example, leading a news block. Lida thinks that she gets bored with the routine very quickly.

After a dizzying career on television, an equally stormy and talked about romance followed. The presenters lived together for about five years, but never registered their relationship. In 2007, they had a daughter. Lida talked with Andrei for a long time when he was still married. Only after he broke up with his wife, Taran decided on a relationship. Unfortunately, Andrei was not the “only one” who comes to life once and for all. Everyone was frankly jealous of this couple and could not even imagine that Lida and Andrei would part. Lida was going through the breakup hard, but she found the strength to look at this situation from the other side. Later in an interview, the TV presenter said that she thanks fate for meeting with Domansky and for giving her daughter Vasilina as a present.

Taran is a big fan of alpine skiing and tries to vacation in Europe whenever possible. The TV presenter believes that when you are given a vacation, you need to spend it like the last time. Battering ram never denies himself anything and does not go on diets. She is a big fan of beach holidays and chocolate tanning. For many years, the presenter has been friends with her colleague Marichka Padalko. Marichka and her husband were Vasilina's godparents, and Lida herself is the godfather of Padalko's son.

Lida adores France and everything connected with this country. She rested there several times, but due to the economic crisis she is afraid that now she will not be able to travel as often as before. And recently, Taran said that she was not going to leave the country at all, even for a few days, and would not take a vacation until the situation in Ukraine returned to normal. Lida noted that now all residents of Ukraine follow the news every day, so she considers it her duty to stay on the air.

Now the daughter of Andrey and Lida is already seven years old, and Vasilina is growing up as a smart girl. The other day she was interviewed and asked about her mother. Vasilina said that she and her mother always have a lot of plans, and they do not sit idle. Lida also "introduced" Vasilina to France, and the girl dreams of going there, but for now she is learning French, which her mother knows perfectly.

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Andrei Domansky and Lydia Taran broke up after five years of marriage. "It can't be!" - they said in television circles after a few months ago Andrei frankly admitted that he had left the family. For colleagues, this news was like a bolt from the blue. After all, the couple was considered almost an example to follow: both work in the same area and it seems like no one should understand each other. But life makes its own adjustments ...

“At the last stage of our relationship and after it ended, I had serious problems with self-esteem,” Lida admits. - I thought: God, how wrong I was, since all these years I was building a family, and at 32 I got a kick that showed me that the structure of my life collapsed in an instant! After the break
I lost 9 kg. I had no appetite, I didn't want anything ... "

- Lida, when there was talk about your separation, they were considered an unsuccessful joke, envious gossip ... Anything, but not the truth. After all, in the eyes of the public, you were the perfect family.

Yes, it all happened in an instant. Usually you are informed of this when everything is really destroyed. Before that, I thought that everything was fine. We had a media family, and it seemed to me that we had to be sympathetic to the specifics of our work. Andrey went on a rapid career turn, along with my main activity, a dance project began. After working days, I managed to run the house, raise the child and thought: everything is fine ... Until the first of January I found out that our family was no longer there.

- Not the best gift from Santa Claus ...

Yes, I received it on the first day of 2010. For six months Andrey and I have been preparing a detailed ski trip. The child was left to his grandmother - before that they worked around the clock and dreamed that we would get in the car and go skiing across Europe to Italy. For four years these trips have become a tradition in our family. But on January 1, in Lviv, Andrei said that he would not go further - he urgently needed to return to Kiev and be alone.

Since early in the morning in Lviv our friends were waiting for us, with whom we planned this train, I had to ask Andrey not to shock them and to cancel the Schengen visa with us, cross the border, and then, under the pretext of work, return to Kiev.

I tried to talk, offered to settle in another hotel ... But it was clear from his appearance that he did not intend to rest with me. As a result, we still reached Italy. And the next day Andrey returned to Kiev. I couldn't help it. I had stress, shock, panic ... The ridiculous arguments that we had been preparing for this for so long, left the child, and in general, what would I do now alone, if this vacation was planned for two, did not work on him. this trip, I saw that Andrei was distracted by his telephone life, withdrawing into himself, offered to talk. But he stood his ground: "It's okay!" As a result, I was left in Italy alone. And, in fact, after returning to Kiev, everything ended.

- And how did you explain to your mutual friends that you are no longer one family?

This was the most difficult in this situation. Many did not believe, some tried to reconcile us. Still, we avoided a tedious showdown. Andrey's circle of acquaintances has changed. He used to like to communicate himself
with him, and now, due to his professional demand, he does not need a large circle of friends at all.

- So much time has passed since the breakup. Didn't you have a normal conversation?

There was no truthful dialogue. At first, it's generally hard to explain. Emotions, claims ... When such a tangle gathers, people cannot adequately talk. And then it turns out that no one needs it for a long time.

At first, Andrei announced that he wanted to rent an apartment and live alone, because we would not be able to live together. “Probably yes,” I replied. "Once you have made that decision."

But men have a rule: if they decide something, they want to share the responsibility for it with someone else. He realized that he could not live with me, but I had to make the decision. This is an "absentee ballot" for a man: "You said yourself!"

- You broke up in the winter, but continued to work together. How did you manage to keep the gap under wraps for so long?

We had a certain number of events, where we were engaged together even before the New Year. Already living apart, we had no right to refuse them ... It was, of course, inconvenient. But this is work.

And no one knew anything, because we did not advertise. They even asked the press services of our channels not to say anything. And it worked.

Then Andrei himself told me that his press service had been writing in the column “family status” for a long time: “Not married. He is raising three children. " I asked: "So, I can also say that I am not married and have a daughter?" “Apparently, yes,” Andrei replied. On this and decided.

Lida, men sometimes have something akin to remorse. Andrey did not come to you with such confessions?

Usually, a serious relationship rarely experiences this. I thought that we were many years old, we saw a lot, went through different periods. But Andrei is one of those people who cannot hide their relationship. If he fell in love, then he wants to be with this person ...

Your feminine curiosity did not flinch, did you want to know who is the stranger who broke your family happiness?

I didn't even make inquiries on purpose. I get gossip, but I'm not inclined to believe in the world of show business. I am already calm, and Andrey looks like a happy person who lives for his own pleasure. But he has changed. I look at him and understand that five years ago I started a relationship with a completely different person. It's just that he now has his own, not family priorities.

- Did you have any suspicions that your husband has another woman?

Of course there were. At the age of 35-36, men experience crises in their lives, and a woman who lives with such a man thinks that all his hobbies are a temporary phenomenon, because love is a great power. And the most ridiculous thing is to ask what is going on. Nobody will tell anyway. When I asked him in plain text, he denied everything. No, I had, of course, some female premonitions. Well, then I thought: why should I know this? I needed to save my life ...

About his personal life, I only know that it is beautiful - from his interview. Now he looks free and happy. Maybe at some stage he was burdened by our relationship, he wanted something new, unknown and could not afford it ...

Now we have an even relationship, as Andrei says, in the "father-mother" plane. And they do not provide for an interest in each other's personal lives.

- Why didn't you reach the registry office in five years of civil marriage?

Andrei's first marriage was official, and he emphasized that he would never marry again in his life. Since I wanted to be with him, I accepted this condition. When I was pregnant, I wanted to get married officially. A woman in anticipation of a child turns into a vulnerable substance. Even among the strongest women in the world this happens ...

But that was just my wish. Even when Andrei tried to somehow "renew" his feelings, I jokingly asked: "Then will you marry me?" He replied: "No, I will never marry again!"

Lida, I understand how difficult it is to talk about it, but how did you explain to your daughter that your dad will no longer live with you?

At first I told Vasya that dad had left, he had a lot of work, on-site shooting ... The most important thing is when the father leaves, and the daughter realizes that he seems to be there, but he is not, - to explain to her where he is, because he remains her beloved dad ... I had to visit a child psychologist to convince me that everything is fine with Vasya.

Now Vasya and Andrei see each other several times a month: I buy tickets to the theater and ask him to go with his daughter, or he just comes to us and they play at home for a while.

But fathers are different - an hour is enough for them to satisfy their father's needs and continue to pursue their lives. Once every two weeks I can send Andrey a photo of Vasya. And he - sms that he will drop in with the money the day after tomorrow. Or: "I'm abroad now, what is Vasya's clothing size?"

- Thanks to your tact and female wisdom, have you managed to maintain a good relationship with your husband?

I treat him well as the father of my only daughter. He gave me the best that every woman can have - a child.

Our personal relationship deteriorated, but we resolved the financial issue amicably: we talked over the amount that Andrei allocates for his daughter. He pays honestly, and I honestly spend money on the child. With this money, Vasya attends developmental and sports activities. And for myself, I make great money myself.

My present is Vasyusha, me and my mother. Mom lives with us, because every morning I get up for work at four in the morning, and there are no night gardens where you can send a three-year-old child in Kiev. And for several months now, we are really good and comfortable. I have always supported myself, now - too, and I feel like a self-sufficient person. I understand that it may not be for life, but for now it is only a pleasure for me. So parting for me was not the end of the world, but the beginning of a new life.

- Well, there is definitely no doubt about that. One of the most successful TV presenters can't have it any other way.

You know, I have so much work that I don't even have time to think about it. I am now torn on two programs at once: "Snidanok z" 1 + 1 "and" About football show "on the channel" 2 + 2 ". The channel's management asked me to return to a topic that I had not dealt with for a good five years after working on Channel 5. In "Snidanka" I conduct news and guest studios every hour.

Sometimes there are so many guests that it is not easy for Ruslan Senichkin alone (my co-host on the air). And on Mondays I host the "About Football Show" program, which comes out late in the evening and ends late at night. It is designed for a narrow circle of people, mainly a male audience. All football stars were on a visit. And on the last program, I sadly thought: if my father (an avid football fan) were alive, he would be happy to see me in this role.

- Can you find time to relax in this mode?

This is difficult. It appears on the Friday after the broadcast and ends on Sunday. I like to travel this day. True, few flights are suitable for one day. But sometimes you manage to get somewhere. In the summer, I flew alone to Europe for 6 days. She managed to discover and love the previously unknown Belgium - together with Brussels, Bruges and Ghent. In the fall, I decided to meet my "two troikas" in the Caucasus, in the mountains. Therefore, the program editor and I urgently flew to Tbilisi. As a result, they did not have time to reach the mountains themselves, but the birthday in the Kakheti Valley, directly in the vineyard with an amazing view of the Caucasian mountain range, was a success.

- Does Vasilina, looking at her successful mother, strive for the television world?

She is a self-sufficient person. And at the age of three, she clearly knows what she wants, she has her own list of priorities. But she is not infected with TV fever and can easily switch to cartoons when she sees me on TV in the morning. So far, given her young age, she simply cannot keep up the conversation, but I think she will soon begin to make serious comments on my work.

- What is lacking today for the complete happiness of a strong woman Lydia Taran?

A good 8 hour sleep! (Laughs) I have ambitious plans for the future: I want to change my wardrobe, improve my English, which is still lame in comparison with French. I also dream of going to courses or seminars in psychology.

The new peak that I have taken is my mother. I left my parents and became independent at the age of 17. And at the age of 33 she invited my mother to live with her. She spoils my daughter and me with original cuisine. Previously, we could not even think that she could cook such a thing.

In general, every person needs turns in order to understand that life is much broader, and it does not narrow to the state: “There is He and what is around Him”. There is a lot of life without it. You can be really happy with your mother and daughter. I will celebrate this New Year again at a ski resort, but I am going to do skiing, not self-blame. In general, from the coming New Year, I look forward to a completely different, high-quality year.

Have you ever thought that the accidents with which we often explain our successes and failures are not accidental at all? When you are faced with a difficult choice and cannot make an important decision in any way, life seems to give hints and pushes you to the right path. Inexplicable but the fact.

We decided to ask our heroine, TV presenter and the main fairy of the project about this. Zdіysni mriyu... Now she is one of the most successful women in Ukraine, who fantastically combines charity work, career growth and personal life. But, how it all began, and most importantly - when Lydia Taran has time to live.

Especially for readers Clutch, the TV presenter remembered her cloudless childhood and school problems, spoke frankly about the most tremulous fear, relationships with men and the fateful accidents that permeate her life everywhere.

About childhood

When I am asked about my childhood, a large deciduous tree immediately looms before my eyes, which grew between the houses of my grandmother and her neighbors. It was a mulberry. My brother and my friends and I climbed on it, built shelters or houses, imagined ourselves to be adults. They could sit on this tree for hours ...

My grandmother also had a pond in the city. Big and colorful. We spent half a day playing the mulberry, then ran to the pond and returned when it was already dark. I remember the adults scolded us a lot for this, and in the morning they overwhelmed us with work - picking strawberries, watering the garden ... As soon as we coped with the tasks, they ran to the mulberry tree again - and everything was new.

Therefore, it is summer that I associate with childhood. I always saw my grandmother, went to her even before I went to school. My parents lived in a big city, in Kiev, and worked very hard. Therefore, when summer began, where could my brother and I be, if not to grandmother? We went to my dad's mom. She lived in Znamenka, Kirovograd region. In the private sector.

I had a free childhood. We swam to the point of exhaustion, sold something in the bazaar ... We did things that didn't belong in a big city. We, of course, swam in the Dnieper in Kiev, but this cannot be compared. Quite a different scale of liberties and festivities.

About parents

My parents had professions that were not quite usual for that time. Creative. Mom worked as a journalist, and dad worked as a screenwriter and translator. And since they were not listed in any factories, my brother and I did not have those material "advantages" that were inherent in strong Soviet families of workers, engineers or trade workers.

For example, at that time trade union members at any enterprise could get free vouchers to camps for their children, had the opportunity to rest in sanatoriums and resort centers in Crimea at a symbolic price. That is, there were many such Soviet things that passed us by, because mom and dad had specific professions.

In addition, our parents did not have the opportunity to feed us with all sorts of deficits, for example, sweet New Year gifts from the trade unions. In some small towns, as far as I know, such special deliveries still exist.

My parents worked hard, like everyone else at the time. I cannot say that my brother and I were abandoned children who did not receive attention from mom and dad. But we understood that adults are busy and they do not have time to solve our children's issues. Therefore, no one ever tried to run to their parents with their problems - they tried to be independent. And it only played to our advantage, as I think. From an early age, they learned to take responsibility for themselves and their actions ...

About school years

I studied at a district school on the left bank of Kiev, located near the houses where many factory workers lived Arsenal... The school was Russian, but a "Ukrainian" class was opened in it, my parents specially punched it in all instances. For them, it was a matter of principle! That's why, in fact, I studied there. The Ukrainian class is the fruit of my parents' struggle to Ukrainianize Soviet Kiev.

At school, studies were conducted for children from ordinary Ukrainian families who had just moved to Kiev and who needed to be quickly Russified. This was the case everywhere in those days. And someone had to resist. That someone was my mom and dad.

Gradually, the Ukrainian-speaking class became an equalization class, because it was considered not prestigious. There were much fewer children in it than in other classes, and only the most uninterested in learning were sent to us. They said that we had the worst performance and behavior at school.

To be honest, I never worried about this because I didn't feel like a collective being. There were all sorts of things: enemies, boycotts, and quarrels. At the same time, good moments happened. But I cannot say that my class has become friendly, that I would not have exchanged it for some other one.

Life has shown that out of all my classmates, only 5 people received higher education, including me. For Kiev, this is nonsense, because the number of institutions here is simply off scale.

And the very study at school was conducted "anyhow". To be honest, I sometimes skipped, instead of lessons I ran to the library and sat for hours at a time. Although this can hardly be called truancy, because there was no attendance control at all. We were free in this regard. Many joked that everything is possible in our school (laughs - ed.).

Of course, this was not the case everywhere. I just studied at a district school, and in big cities such institutions were not centers of culture and education. Especially when the number of first grades reached a dozen, where more than 30 children studied in each.

Again, this was not the best place for children. We had different cases in the area - someone jumped out of the window, someone “smashed” classrooms, and in some classrooms there were no windows, they were constantly knocked out and covered with plywood ... As far as I know, now this school has improved - and now this is a school with in-depth study of some languages.

About childhood dreams

In truth, I didn't have any childhood dreams about the future, I didn't think about it at all. There was no even close desire to become, for example, a pianist, teacher or lawyer. But I understood for sure that I did not want to associate life with mathematics, physics, chemistry, so I went to the humanitarian lyceum.

And in the Lyceum itself, there was simply not enough time to think about the future. We were so loaded with studies, essays, scientific discussions, regional and city olympiads in all subjects, KVNs in history and the like that we could not even think about who we wanted to become. Our main goal was, perhaps, the completion of our studies (smiles - editor's note).

I graduated from high school as a 15-year-old girl. But is it at this age that all children can concretely imagine their future, set some life priorities? ... Experience shows that no.

Is our education system aimed at ensuring that children from an early age look for themselves, try to find a sphere with which they want to connect their lives? With the help of all kinds of trainings, psychological tests, career guidance conversations with specialists? No. Our education system is aimed at taking by the throat, stuffing unnecessary knowledge into the head, and then releasing it into life - and do with it what you want. Where will concrete dreams of the future come from?

About fateful "accidents"

Yes, life turned out to be interesting. Because a lot of things happened completely unexpected for me. Almost every stage of my life is permeated with some fateful accidents. For example, admission to a lyceum. It seemed impossible, the competition was serious. "Know-it-alls" from all over the city tried to enter there, and after studying at the district school it seemed an impossible task to compete with them.

I decided to enter the lyceum spontaneously. I must say right away that this was absolutely my initiative, no pressure from my parents. I went to the embroidery circle, made friends there with one girl - so she told me that she was preparing to enter the humanitarian lyceum. When I heard this, I decided to find out about him. I went to the Lyceum for exploration, talked with the teachers - and decided that I really needed to study there.

Firstly, it was a university lyceum. It already sounded like a song! (laughs - ed.) Secondly, it was located in the center of the city. There are completely different children, more knowledge-oriented.

There was a very big competition. I passed 4 exams: Ukrainian and foreign languages, history, literature. Anticipating questions, I will say that I prepared myself. Only the school teacher helped with the language, we studied at home for free - we wrote dictations, did grammar exercises.

In general, in three months I had to learn the entire school curriculum. Because the knowledge that was given in the district school would not be enough to pass the exams. I concentrated on entering the lyceum, I really wanted it. I was just dreaming! Probably, it was noticed, because by some miracle I passed.

Plus, I was lucky that they studied French at my school. Although it was taught even worse than other subjects (laughs - editor's note). After the 9th grade, when I entered the Lyceum, I knew literally three phrases - “Merci” (thanks), “Bonjour” (hello) and “Je m’appelle Lidia” (My name is Lida). But in fact, it was French that gave me the opportunity to enter the lyceum.

The Lyceum wanted to create a French group. Since the schools in which this language was taught could be counted on one hand, almost everyone who passed the exam entered. If I had to take an English test with the same level of knowledge as it was with the then French, I would never have passed.

Some kind of magical coincidence. It was very difficult to enter this lyceum, being a student of a not very strong (I would even say, weak) school. But somehow I still managed to get through. Interestingly, my friend from the district school in Obolon, where they also taught French, entered with me.

This was not the end of the accident. I chose the university in the same way as the lyceum. Although at that time there was no particular choice, documents were submitted to only one place. I could not enter - get ready and wait for next year. My friend and I wanted to get into the Faculty of International Relations, but we failed our interviews. And all we had to do was jump into the last carriage.

So I ended up at the Institute of Journalism of the KNU named after TG Shevchenko, whose selection committee was still working and took my documents. The exams seemed pleasant to me, thanks to my studies in the humanitarian lyceum, I passed everything easily.

To be honest, entering the Institute of Journalism was not only an accident, but also stupidity. Parents even scolded for this, because my brother and I knew how hard and poor it was for them to live with their professions. Voluntarily, I would not want such a fate for myself, but I went, because there were no other options.

Studying was easy for me. I studied from the notes that I wrote at the Lyceum. There was enough information in them to pass the exams, so I could skip some lectures. I remember that classmates from my notes even made spurs for themselves.

In general, everything that we studied for two years at the humanitarian lyceum, then studied for another 5 years at the Institute of Journalism. And it was a real ball, because you could easily go to work. Which, in fact, I did.

I even got on television thanks to a happy coincidence. My boyfriend worked on the radio, and I sometimes came to his studio. In the same building where the radio station was located, a New channel... I decided to try my luck - I came and said that I wanted to work. And they took me.

About career and motherhood

When I gave birth to Vasilina, I was 30. At that age, nothing can prevent a career. Moreover, I have been doing it since I was 18. When Vasya appeared, I already had a stable job in which I excelled, so the birth of my daughter did not spoil my life, but only made it better!

In general, I consider it stupid to think that children can interfere with a career. Everything is exactly the opposite. They give such a reboot, such a rethinking of life, that many either begin to work with greater zeal and achieve success, or radically change internally and find themselves in a completely different field of activity. Having children changes the worldview and life priorities.

My profession did not require a long sitting on maternity leave - you could stay at home, edit the material and go to the studio only directly on the air. Therefore, the birth of Vasilina did not knock me out of my professional rut, only from the physical one. After all, first you gain pounds, and then you need to lose them. And during breastfeeding it is quite difficult.

After giving birth, I was recovering for more than a year. I don’t know if it’s a lot or a little ... I didn’t exhaust myself with physical exertion and hunger strikes in order to regain shape in record time. The process proceeded gradually. And when Vasya turned a year and a half, I started preparing for the project I dance for you... We trained a lot, rehearsed the numbers, trying to bring them to perfection. Thanks to this, the extra pounds are quickly and easily gone.

About raising a daughter

Vasilina and I are close friends, but only until I tell her three times to clear the table, and she will continue to pretend that these requests do not concern her. Then we stop being friends, and I still turn on the "strict mom" mode. From time to time it is simply necessary.

Everyone in the world is very kind to her - grandmothers, grandfathers, my friends and colleagues, even her teachers. Everyone is scattered in praise ... She has such a chocolate-marmalade-marshmallow-pupsik life that without some discipline and periodically strict, demanding mother, she simply cannot become independent and responsible. Sometimes there must be a person nearby who can ground a little.

For example, recently my daughter didn’t pass her English exam in the best way, and her teacher wrote to me: “Just don’t scold Vasilinochka. Don't get angry ... It just happened. " Everyone around it is protecting, but you need someone to build it, say that it is going in the wrong direction, direct it in the right direction. Therefore, you have to take on the role of critic. Although I love my daughter more than anyone in my life, and this is not even discussed.

The teenage age is on the doorstep - I am horrified to see what it will bring us. In the same place, any factor can become a turning point. I'm worried about how not to lose touch with Vasya and keep track of all her impulses, so to speak. So that later it does not turn out that she needs to talk with a psychologist. And who will be to blame? Mom, of course. (laughs - ed.)

Parents during this period should show sensitivity and child-orientation, but at the same time teach independence and responsibility for their own choice. Although the modern generation of children is different from ours. They are not silent now if they do not like something, and they themselves can guide their parents well in terms of their upbringing.

About relationships

When you are a public person, the public is interested in everything about you. Especially personal life. I have been working in television for a long time and I understand this perfectly. But almost 10 years have passed since our relationship with Andrei ended, so it's stupid to talk about them now. He built a new family - he has a wife and children. And I have no right to talk about him, because this is not my story for a long time.

I can say that I am happy with the result of our union with Andrey, Vasilina's daughter. She is an intelligent, judicious and wise child beyond her years. Vasya understands why dad does not live with us and does not make a tragedy out of it. She has a lot of relatives - grandmothers, cousin, half-sisters and brother, aunt and uncle ... Their love warms her.

Of course, sometimes there are moments when Vasilina says to me: "You know, it seems to me that my dad doesn't love me." But this happens to every child. After her dad shows up, they spend some time together and their relationship evens out again. This is fine.

I think with horror if Vasya had to live in an atmosphere of dislike, distrust, quiet conflicts, when mom and dad sleep in different rooms, inevitably, she would have formed a guilt complex. Thank God we don't have that.

Parents should not sacrifice themselves for the sake of the child and torment each other, making excuses that it will be better for him. This approach is wrong in all respects. I know from the example of so many families that it is a terrible feeling when a heavy burden is hung on you as a little one - the burden of responsibility for problems between adults. You find yourself in a role that you don't deserve to be. The family should educate and let go, not hold hostage. After all, even when you grow up and start an independent life, you continue to be held hostage, only remotely.

Each family is happy and unhappy in its own way. But being with someone for the sake of a child is definitely not my choice. It will not bring happiness. Not only to me, but also to my daughter. There is no sense in such a life at all, and there is nothing worse than a meaningless life.

Somewhere in half of those with whom Vasya communicates, both parents are not represented in the family every day, many have divorced parents. In the modern world, this has become not a horror that must be hidden, but, unfortunately, one of the norms. Although, perhaps, it is not appropriate to talk about regret here. We, after all, do not know what is happening in other people's relationships and what is the reason for their separation. Time goes by, the institution of the family is changing. And we cannot influence this process in any way.

About gossip and haters

Recently, I have been trying not to answer questions about my personal life, since gossip about my pseudo-novels appears on the Web almost every day. I am credited with relationships with both married colleagues and with men whom I have seen in my life at most once or twice. I am constantly living in a stress that I don't deserve to live in.

For example, recently a friend from Kamenets-Podolsk sent me a news item saying that I am having an affair with a colleague of my ex-husband. He also works as a TV presenter. And what is interesting, the material emphasizes that my "beloved" is 10 years younger than me. I saw this man only twice: on football and during the filming of some plot. But we managed to weave a novel. This happens everywhere, I'm used to it, but my friends are very worried about this, outraged.

I understand that everyone is writing this to increase traffic. "Shock! The famous TV presenter has a lover 10 years younger ”- who refuses to click on such a headline? To tell the truth, such "ducks" only flatter me. This suggests that I am not only popular on the Web, but also that I can still have a lover 10-15 years younger (laughs - ed.).

About men

I've always had someone. But my personal life took shape by itself. I didn't devote a lot of attention to finding a boyfriend, a man, a second half - call it what you want - a lot. I was more focused on work and career. If my main goal was to improve my family life, I probably would have done it 20 years ago (laughs - ed.).

As for me today ... I can say for sure that I cannot live with a jealous man, with a man who owns it. Because he simply will not withstand the incessant stream of shock news about my "adventures". He needs to be truly confident in himself.

It is very important for me that the man who is next to me is self-sufficient and self-realized professionally. But his external and physical data are already secondary ...

About plans for the future

To be honest, I am now inclined to live by the principle: "do not shift the problems of tomorrow to today." It seems to me that if you do not have constant worries and worries about the future, if your head is not filled with thoughts about problems that do not yet exist, then today you will be able to live much more productively, better quality and happier.

The truth is simple - every well-lived today brings us closer to the same cloudless, beautiful future. Of course, having a big goal that inspires and guides you through life is cool. But it's important not to go too far. Because while you concentrate on how to realize this goal, you will forget what meaning you put into it.

I live for today and give my best. It is most important. Every day I have a carriage and a small cart of worries: maternal, work, household ... For example, a huge piece of my soul is occupied by a wonderful project Zdіysni mriyu, thanks to which we help children with serious health problems to believe in themselves, in a miracle, find their dream and become happier.

My image of a good fairy, adored by children, is not always applicable to realities. Sometimes it takes a lot of work to make one childhood dream come true. We already have plans for the whole year - an art marathon #Myadityachamriya. We really want to make sure that children dream without restrictions, without conventions with an attitude - everything is possible, you just need to believe, not give up, follow your dream.

Only 10% of sick children can do this, and only 5% of healthy children ... This is sad. But 63% believe in a miracle! To inspire them, we will collect 100,000 drawings of dreams and find 100,000 wizards! …. If, with all this work, I will still be engaged in strategic planning for the future and self-digging, I will simply waste time, which already needs to be appreciated, loved and enjoyed every moment.

Interviewer: Olesya Bobrik
Photographer: Alexander Lyashenko
Shooting organizer.

Lydia Taran is one of the brightest representatives of the world of Ukrainian television, who managed to build an impressive career, without forgetting either her beauty or her family. How did she do it? Let's find out together!

Lydia Taran is one of the few women on Ukrainian television who have been able to firmly gain a foothold in the profession for many years and continue to be one of the most sought-after leaders in the media industry. It is impossible to imagine the 1 + 1 TV channel without a pretty blonde who hosted Breakfast, news, and sports programs, becoming the real “face” of the TV channel.

Nationality: Ukrainian

Citizenship: Ukraine

Activity: TV presenter

Family status: not married, has a daughter Vasilina (born in 2007)

Biography

Lida was born in Kiev in 1977 to a family of journalists. Parents were constantly not at home, which is why Lida hated journalism and the work of mom and dad as a child. Due to the fact that the family did not pay enough attention to her, Lida began to skip school. Unlike other "truants" who strolled around the yards, the girl spent her "free" time from school usefully: she sat for hours in the reading room of the library, located not far from her home, and read books.

Despite absenteeism, Taran graduated from school with good grades, although this did not help to enter the Faculty of International Relations. The girl did not know where to go instead and chose the most obvious option - journalism. When the parents found out that the daughter had followed in their footsteps, the father said that he would not help her "out of acquaintance" and that she would have to achieve everything herself.

And Lida accepted the challenge and coped with everything on her own! Even while studying at the Institute of Journalism of the KNU. T.G. Shevchenko, she worked part-time on the radio, and then she was quite unexpectedly invited to television. The building next to the radio station housed the studio of the New Channel, and Taran asked a passing worker where to find out about vacancies. So, at only 21 years old, Lida began to work on one of the national channels of Ukraine.

Lida has always been interested in sports and wanted to work in sports news. Quite by accident, Andrei Kulikov, one of the country's most famous TV journalists, returned to the capital, and Taran was paired with him. According to Lida, at that time she felt so happy that she was ready to work practically for free. And when Lida found out that she would be paying decent money for the broadcast, she knew no limit to her happiness. On the New Channel, Lida managed to work in projects "Reporter", "Sportreporter", "Pidyom" and "Goal".

From 2005 to 2009, Lydia Taran worked as a news presenter on Channel 5 ( "Hour novin")

In 2009, Lida switched to channel 1 + 1, where she hosted such popular programs as "Breakfast" and "I love Ukraine"... Later she became a member of the popular project "I dance for you" and winner of the prestigious Teletriumph television award. Lydia was the host of TSN, and also worked on channel 2 + 2 in the program "ProFootball".

It is very important for Taran to try herself in something new and interesting, so she does not consider herself to be a group of those presenters who work only in one direction for 10-20 years, for example, lead a news block, but always strive to gain new experience and learn something else.

In recent months, Lydia Taran has been the curator of a large charity project "Make your dream come true”And devotes his time to fulfilling the dreams of seriously ill children, for whom every day is a miracle.

Personal life

After a dizzying career on television, an equally stormy and discussed romance followed with a colleague in the shop and TV presenter Andrei Domansky. The presenters lived together for about five years, but never registered their relationship. In 2007, they had a daughter, whom her parents named Vasilina.

Lida talked with Andrei for a long time, when he was still married to his first wife, but only after he broke up with her, Taran decided on a relationship. Everyone admired their couple, considering it perfect, so for many it was a real shock to their unexpected parting.

Andrei was not for Lida the “only one” who comes to life once and for all, the first to decide to break off relations. Lida was going through the gap hard and was very offended by Andrei at first, but she found the strength to look at this situation from the other side. Later in an interview, the TV presenter said that she thanks fate for meeting with Domansky and for giving her daughter Vasilina as a present.

“All I know about his personal life is that it is beautiful,” from his interview. Now he looks free and happy. Maybe at some stage he was burdened by our relationship, wanted something new, unknown and could not afford it ... Now we have an equal relationship, as Andrei says, in the “father-mother” plane and they do not provide for interest in personal each other's lives. "

Now Lydia is focused on her daughter and career success, but also does not forget to devote time to hobbies and entertainment. Several times, Lida appeared with gentlemen, but she is in no hurry to share the details of her personal life and does not advertise it in any way.

"My present is Vasyusha, me and my mother"

• Taran is a big fan of alpine skiing and tries to vacation in Europe whenever possible.
• Lydia speaks French and English.
• Battering ram never denies himself anything and does not go on diets.
• She is a big fan of beach holidays and chocolate tanning.
• For many years, the presenter has been friends with her colleague Marichka Padalko. Marichka and her husband were Vasilina's godparents, and Lida herself is the godfather of Padalko's son.
• Lida adores France and everything connected with this country. She rested there several times, but due to the economic crisis she is afraid that now she will not be able to travel as often as before.
• Quite often he likes to change his image.
• In December 2011 she took part in the show "Ukrainian Beauty".
• In 2012 she took part in the project of the channel "1 + 1" "And love will come".

In honor of the 20th anniversary of Liza, we would like to acknowledge those who inspire and inspire our readers, who have become an example to follow. This is how the idea of ​​the project appeared "Women who inspire us!"

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In an interview for transmission The doorway to Masha Afrosininoy(Channel Ukraine) TV presenter was more serious than ever. He shared his love story from life - why he and Lydia Taran the relationship did not work out.

- When you decided to leave your first life, did you go against your mother?

Yes, absolutely. She reacted very sharply, dad was painfully worried, my sister was against it.

?- Were they against leaving the family or against Lida?

It's all automatic. Andrei leaves the family, he has another woman, which means she is the reason. And it is she who is the factor that prevents Andrey from taking his head in his hands. So it seemed to the parents.

? - Lida was very successful, and you were just starting out. Who do you think was in charge? Lida is a very strong person.

From time to time I was faced with the fact that, being a leader by nature, I realized that they wanted to knock my saddle out from under me.

?- Did you have to step on your throat?

Sometimes yes. I liked the publicity. Like a child - who grabs onto toys, bites everything, breaks.

? - How was it at home? What was this relationship made of?

We lived by work. And it was very exciting. This was the main engine of the relationship. Ukrainian television - it was then simply gushing from all the cracks.

? - Your wife is the host of serious programs. Did you interfere, advise her something?

She came home, and we talked there with her, discussed everything. We gave each other support.

? - You and Lida both earned a lot then. But you already supported, it turns out, two families.

Yes. But we had enough. We never had any questions about why I financially help my first wife. All that was left was to add up and we had a common budget.

?- How did Lida communicate with your mother?

Poorly communicated, because initially there was a barrier. I saw that my mother was doing everything so that no one felt it, but it hung in the air. The social protocol was respected, but no further.

? - But how is it? When two beloved women are not quite in a warm relationship?

And at that time I did not bother with this question. At that time, work was always in the foreground. And the main thing for me was that everything was good at work, so that I could financially help the children.

Do you regret that the relationship with Lida was such a work-passionate-superficial that someone did not speak earlier. Maybe then they would have ended earlier and there would not have been that shocking incident for me when you parted when you drove together from Kiev to Italy by car. And in the car you realized that nothing binds you. I realized to such an extent that you, having brought her to the place of rest, turned around and made your way back. This is what should happen in the minds of a man who already has the experience of both a break and a path to nowhere?

I understood that it was not fair. It’s not fair to stay close at a time when I don’t want to. So I turned around and left. Moreover, you know, if we were alone. We went on vacation with friends. And at that moment I did not have the energy to stage a play that we are a happy couple.

?- It cannot be that you understood all this in the car ...

On the eve of my departure Factory, and Lida had Dancing... These were two exhausting projects for both her and me. Each of us completely immersed ourselves in our project, and we had no other conversations at all. Then, at best, we crossed paths once a day. We emerged from this state before the trip and drove off. Hints that everything is not very good, they were already before the trip. And I was cut very hard. We arrived and spent the night. The next morning I said that I had problems at work. Lida supported this version. Then, when I left, she said what was happening.

? - Lida, in turn, did not take a plane ticket, did not come back for you, why?

She was very offended. It seems to me. But Lida continues to project, she changes her inner resentment.

? - For what offense?

She uttered the word “betrayal” several times. Even one of the channels filmed the program, and more than one, and Lida in an interview told very hard-hitting things about me. The betrayal is that I left her then. The betrayal is that I put an end to our family, that she had plans for the future.

? - She wanted to marry you? Did she give you an ultimatum?

Yes. We had a period when she asked me this question, and I did not know what to answer her. You know, if you are now looking for an answer to this question, then perhaps I had a very strong sense of guilt in front of Vasilina (the common daughter of Domansky and Taran - approx. site), my children in Odessa, and it seemed to me that this was a betrayal in relation to them. Yes, this is utter nonsense, but it was so.

? - Did you tell Lida about this?