Nadezhda Matveeva: “The second husband said when I was leaving for Kiev:“ I know, everything will be fine there. Exclusive

Nadezhda Matveeva, the host of the program Everything will be good and Everything will be delicious on the STB channel, exclusively told I WANT about valuable advice in her life, friendship between a man and a woman, rest and relationships with her son.

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- Nadezhda, you work practically non-stop. Admit it, what charges you with such energy and optimism?

Fortunately, I have the opportunity to rest! And the work you love gives you energy. In "Everything will be good" and "Everything will be delicious!" such well-coordinated teams that every minute on the set is a source of optimism and inspiration.

- How do you recuperate?

Sleep, water, gym, smile. Among other sources of strength, these are the most effective for me.

On the project "Everything will be good" experts are constantly sharing their experience, giving advice. What is the most valuable advice you received in your life in general?

Advice from my mom, whom I completely trust: act according to the circumstances. It's like the samurai principle "Do what you must and come what may."

- Do you have any female friends? How do you spend time with them?

- Do you believe in friendship between a man and a woman?

Friendship is possible between people who understand each other well, rejoice at success, support in problems. Gender doesn't really matter here.

- What qualities in a man do you put in the foreground?

Responsibility, intelligence, sense of humor.

- You are raising a son. Have you ever wondered what kind of mother-in-law you will be? Are you a jealous mom?

I will act according to the principle: to advise only if they ask for advice, to love more at a distance, not to interfere with the relationship. I had good mothers-in-law, so I think it will turn out well.

- Do you manage to find time for travel? Which countries do you like?

I don't plan long trips, but for a week you can periodically go to unknown lands. I like countries with a rich history so that it doesn't get too hot or cold while traveling. Italy, Jordan, Spain - just right!

At first, the girl was content with the role of the keeper of the hearth. Nadia was engaged in raising her son, and also managed to get a second higher education - economics. But the desire to build a career never left her, and soon the girl started looking for work.

Not finding worthy vacancies in the field of engineering and economics, Nadezhda decided to try her hand at journalism. This is how her journey began in the world of the media business.

Nadezhda managed to work as an editor-in-chief of a newspaper that hosts copyright programs on TV and as a DJ on the radio. In 2012, Nadezhda was cast in the show "All will be good" at STB. It was this project that brought her fame and megapopularity.

For 5 years, Nadia was the host of a women's television magazine. In the studio apartment, she received expert guests who shared useful advice and solved important issues. For many women, Nadezhda became the main advisor and helper in life, because every program the audience learned something new and solved painful problems.

In the new project format, she takes on the role of an expert on self-realization, the main critic, who always argues with her colleagues-presenters and finds weak points in any discussions. It is impossible to deceive or confuse her: Nadya is reasonable, wise and ironic.

What else will surprise your favorite TV presenter? Find out in the new season!

Watch the premiere of the updated show format on March 8 at 15:30 on STB TV channel!

Host of the program "All will be kind!" and "Everything will be delicious!" on STB channel is going to celebrate its 45th anniversary for several days

Nadezhda Matveeva admits that she is happy to be a part of the large team of the STB TV family. An invitation to become the host of the project “All will be good! "Coincided with a difficult period in Matveyeva's personal life. She broke up with her second husband, deciding to start a new life. She says that she did it perfectly, and her favorite work helped to overcome the mental pain. Now Nadezhda is the host of two popular projects of the channel "Everything will be good!" and “Everything will be delicious! ". She enjoys the advice she gets from the experts on the two shows. Nadia signed up for a gym, regularly visits a beautician's salon and monitors her diet. He makes an exception only on his birthday. Nadia is going to celebrate her 45th birthday for several days by arranging home gatherings for relatives and friends.

- As the heroine of Vera Alentova said in the film “Moscow Does Not Believe in Tears”: “At forty, life is just beginning” ...

- Now I know it for sure. I am an adult, independent, doing what I love, my son has grown up. I am full of hope and I know for sure that there is something to strive for. Therefore, with full responsibility I can confirm the words of one of my favorite movie heroines.

- They say that you can only achieve success before the age of 30, but you have broken stereotypes.

- Even at the age of 30 I had successes, only fewer people knew about them. I gave birth to a son, worked on the radio in Kremenchug, took care of the house. But over time, there was a feeling that she had stopped both in her profession and in relationships. She changed her occupation, moving to Cherkassy and becoming the chief editor of an advertising and information newspaper. But due to problems in the family, she left this job and returned with her son to Kremenchug. The next stage was regional television, I again comprehended the profession from scratch. It was difficult, but I must admit, my ex-husbands believed in me. The first husband sent radio DJs to the casting. And the second husband, when I was leaving for Kiev, said: “I know, everything will be fine there”.

- And what, never gave up?

- I am quite emotional, in the family I even got the nickname Miss Panic. Small failures I could develop to the size of catastrophes. In this sense, it is good that life provided an opportunity to train self-control, calmness and patience. In the most difficult moments, I remember my mother, who really had a hard time in life. Because of her father's drunkenness, she literally did not see the white light. At the same time, my mother managed to be always optimistic. I am sure that many of our women are taught by life not to give up, believe in themselves and move on.

- Directly from your program "All will be kind!"

- I remember how worried I was when I was invited to the casting of the presenters of the television magazine "All will be good!" on the STB TV channel. I liked the idea of ​​the project very much, I was delighted to learn that I was approved. After a year and a half I have been participating in three projects: "Everything will be good!", "Everything will be delicious!" and "The Battle of Psychics" (I am present as one of the judges).

- Experts come to visit you every day and share a variety of useful tips. Do you follow them yourself?

- Oh yeah! I radically changed the recipe for cheesecakes after Alla Kovalchuk's master class. Now I cook them without adding flour. For the winter, I froze greens in foil in the form of a sausage. A scrub mask with grape seeds from Lilia Rebrik and an algae wrap from cosmetologist Olya Metelskaya came up to me. Hector Jimenez Bravo taught how to peel an avocado correctly, and Taras Shpira showed how to quickly extract grains from a pomegranate. The most effective exercises for the press are from Anita, and Igor Obukhovsky showed how to get rid of a headache. Better stop me, otherwise I will spend hours listing the advice of our experts that have come in handy in my life.

- You have recently become the host of a culinary project as well.

- I love to cook, and my loved ones praise my cooking. Friends order pilaf and pasties. Now I have broadened my culinary horizons with a chocolate-sea buckthorn dessert, a bean cake, burgundy beef ... Only one thing is missing for me to enjoy my successes in the home culinary field - time.

- What gift will you make for your birthday?

- I will give myself a complex of spa treatments. I will relax, replenish myself with energies and - back to work. For many years in a row, I have been thinking about a gift that I would very much like to receive. I love pugs. The cutest dogs, in my opinion. But I have absolutely no time to walk the dog. In addition, we have two cats in our family. So this gift has been postponed for several years. But the car would be very happy. Although something tells me - not this time.

- But happiness is probably in something else?

- Happiness for me is a conscious movement in life. I am learning this, I make mistakes, I continue my way ...

With an ironic smile, lively laughter or sad notes in her voice, Nadezhda Matveeva in a frank interview with Viva! about divorce, relationships with ex-spouses and son, money and success.

Parents almost never punished little Nadia. The girl only once flew hard when, without warning her mother, she went with her older friend to enroll in the library. Curiosity is an innate trait of the TV presenter "All will be good" and the co-host of the morning radio show Nadezhda Matveyeva. In her work, she appreciates the opportunity to satisfy curiosity and thirst for communication with interesting people. Nadezhda has two educations behind her shoulders, in her passport there are two marks of marriage. Nadezhda Matveeva, a TV presenter of the project "All will be good," spoke about how to survive a divorce, her family experience, patches on her heart and the ability to believe in herself.

Nadya, we were not the first to notice how sincerely you are surprised and laughing cheerfully at every little discovery, every joke in the program “All will be kind”.

It was while working on the program that I happily discovered that with the acquisition of life experience, my curiosity does not fade away, and I never tire of rejoicing in meeting new interesting people. But they say that with age, a person's social circle narrows. And then, literally in every issue of the TV magazine, funny stories happen. Hector Jimenez-Bravo and I recently prepared an anti-hangover soup for a culinary section. And they tried to communicate without an interpreter. According to legend, the translator of Hector Aleksey had a stormy New Year celebration and did not come to work, so we had to use the Russian-Spanish dictionary and the actor's knowledge of the Russian language. It was a lot of fun, because Hector spoke Russian pretty well, and I didn't understand Spanish at all. Of course, we were joking in the frame, we said that Hector no longer needed a translator. Immediately after this plot, Alexei's mother, who, by the way, is fluent in simultaneous translation, called her son and anxiously found out what he was doing on New Year's Eve, how he could leave Hector without help and what would happen to his work now. The power of television! (Laughs)

You always have a good mood! But you have a very busy work schedule, and then - just recently you went through a divorce.

Indeed, sometimes a couple of hours of sleep is the limit of my dreams. As for my personal life ... It was my second marriage, but it ended in separation.

You talk about it so calmly. Have you managed to remain friends with both your first spouse and your second?

You know, my psychologist friend says about this: “You don't want to be my dog? Come on, will you be my cat? " (Laughs) She is convinced that initially people met for certain roles in each other's life - husband and wife, lovers, and with friends is a completely different story. With the first husband, we remained the parents of a son, with the second, we had a plan to part with friends ... Today we communicate, but I would not call it friendship.

Did the divorce decisions come to you easily?

Once a friend said: "If something goes wrong in family life, you have to get a divorce - and that's it!" I wondered: how is it, we got married to live life together? I saw my parents' divorce, but I connected it exclusively with my father's drunkenness, domestic violence. Therefore, I thought for a long time: if there are no such serious problems in the family, life together can continue. As a result, my friend still lives with her husband, who did not suit her, and I have already parted with two spouses ...

It seems to me that problems between people arise from the realization of their own incompleteness. We are trying to find in another person something with which we could patch up the gaps in ourselves, but this does not work, because we initially have everything. I like the saying: "The main thing we should strive for is to find ourselves, to know ourselves and to love ourselves." And I am now at the stage of "loving myself", and the rest, I think, will follow. So in my husbands, I was looking for what I lacked at that particular moment - the ability to stand firmly on the ground, and not hold on to the air.

Our relationship with Valera, my second husband, was initially filled with tenderness and romance. He gave me songs and poems. We worked together on the radio, we had a tradition - I went on the morning air at six, and at five to seven I called and woke him up. In one of his songs, the words appeared: “... wake me up at five to seven, stretch your voice from afar, I can’t change anything if you don’t want to fly ...” It seems to me that people who have such beauty in a relationship should not cling to the last hopes when it becomes clear that the relationship is at an impasse. Don't torture each other. You have to be able to let go.

What attracted you to these men, do they have similar features?

In many ways, they are not alike. The first one is reliable, calm, balanced. I thought that I would be behind him like a stone wall, that is, literally “for my husband”. I was fully confident that this person, with his “down-to-earthness,” ability to solve problems, would give me a sense of security. The second, on the contrary, is a creative person and a real intellectual. I had a joke when I was studying at the institute, the girls always said: “Of course, Nadia, it's easy for you with men! The main thing for you is to be smart, but this is not enough for us. " When I met Valera, I thought: “So this is the same smart guy I dreamed of! My girlish dreams were embodied in him. "

You met your first spouse at the institute, and your second?

It was an office romance. We met on the radio, where my first spouse sent me. Initially, it was just a professional hobby for each other.

That is, when you started a relationship with Valery, you were not yet divorced?

I lived in a family with certain problems, but I had not thought about divorce yet. From the outside, this marriage probably no longer looked perfect. Our mutual friends tried to warn me about something, they said: "Nadia, don't you notice anything?" And I did not notice anything, I was already carried away by another person. Later it turned out that while I was thinking about what to do, my husband was occupied with a similar problem. Nobody was left offended.

Has he got another woman?

We didn't talk about it. I did not seek to find out this from our mutual friends. I felt guilty.

From your first marriage you have a son, he had no complaints about his mother, his father?

Naturally, he experienced our divorce in his own way. I lived with my first husband for 7 years, with the second for twelve. When we parted, my son had just gone to school. Both me and his dad tried to convey the idea - nothing has changed, we love him, as before. It is clear that for a child this idea is ephemeral, he wants his father and mother to be together. But I was lucky - my son and my second husband became friends.

How close are you to your son? Does he share with you the details of his personal life?

We call each other every day. Of course, I would like him, like me to my mom, to tell everything at once. But he's a man, and that's not the way they do it. Over time, I realized: we have to wait, he will come and tell everything himself. There is trust between us. I want him to know that I am the person who will support him in any situation. Vlad is already a completely independent person, and his tastes may not coincide with mine. With all my heart I want my son to be happy, and therefore I am ready to accept his choice, even if it will be difficult for me. Once the son said: "Mom, I communicate with you, and it's hard for me to find a girl with whom I would be just as interested to talk." On the one hand, I am pleased to hear this, on the other, I understand that this is indeed a certain difficulty, and on the third, I am calm: in choosing girls, he is not guided by purely external criteria. I am even surprised when and who managed to put it all into his head? But from childhood he was very independent. Even in matters of clothing, for example, he had favorite brands before me.

You are probably just indifferent to brands.

I buy clothes as needed. And this applies to almost everything.

What are you not sorry to spend money on?

I have a very balanced approach to shopping. Perhaps because I understand: money has not fallen from the sky, you have to earn it. I never spend money on dust collectors. I believe that investing in yourself is the least risk of bankruptcy.

As a student, did you save money for anything?

I was one of those happy girls who did not have to earn extra money during their studies. I received an excellent student's scholarship - 60 rubles, and my mother sent me 60 rubles every month from the money that my grandmother had specially left for my studies. Of course, I didn't skate like cheese in butter, but I always had money. To this day, I believe that finance does not tolerate frivolity and needs planning and proper allocation. Perhaps because in our family they never really boasted - dad drank, and mom sometimes had to fight off his annoying drinking companions, who always lacked dozens to drink.

By the way, you have two educations that have nothing to do with either journalism or the art of voiceover - technical and economic.

(Smiles) I entered the Moscow Power Engineering Institute because I am doing well with verbal counting (no one in the store has yet managed to cheat me), and the math teacher was my idol - moderately strict and demanding, she managed to convey her passion to us , students. On my graduation tape, she wrote: "I want you to become a mathematician!" That is why it was important for me that later she found out that I had passed the entrance exam in mathematics perfectly well in Moscow! And so it happened.

In any profession there comes a moment when you think: where to grow further? It seemed to me that if I did business, I could make more money. At that time, I had already worked as a journalist. The company paid for my economic training. I worked on radio and got a second degree. And if I actually did not have time to use my first education - I got married as a student, went on maternity leave, was engaged in raising a child, then in my second specialty I even worked in an advertising and information magazine, where I headed the sales department. But sales are not really mine. (Smiling)

Which of your professions brought you your first money?

Work at a radio station in Kremenchug. My first husband and I found a time when students after graduation were assigned to work at their place of residence. His parents lived in Komsomolsk, near Kremenchug. My husband worked in his specialty, and I sat at home with my child. I had a red diploma, but had no work experience - it is difficult to get a job with such a “diagnosis” now, and it was not easy before. Moreover, my maternity leave coincided with the difficult 90s, when everything fell apart before our eyes. One day my husband heard an announcement about a competition for the host of a local radio station and said: "Nadia, go, you will succeed!" And I took a chance among twenty more applicants. You had to tell about yourself, explain why you are applying for this position and what you expect from it, and tell an anecdote. The day before, I heard a terrific anecdote about an accountant.

Tell.

A young accountant comes to get a job at the plant named after Clara Zetkin. In the personnel department they ask him: “What can you do? Do you know how to settle accounts? " - he: “I can’t do anything. I can only count money. " They refuse him. A year later, a respectable man walks into a jewelry store in America, asks about the price of the most expensive necklace, then opens a suitcase, and a lot of money spills out. The seller wonders: “Why so much cash? It is much easier to issue an invoice ”! - "If I could write, I would now work as an accountant at the factory of Clara Zetkin." (Laughs) I passed the competition!

In Kremenchug, where you worked on the radio, you moved from Moscow. Was not embarrassed by the change: from the metropolis to the provinces?

I had a fear of staying in a small town, but I did not suffer from the fact that Kremenchug, where we moved from Komsomolsk, was not a metropolis. Well, what, in fact, is the difference? Fewer cars? (Laughs) History repeats itself with my son. He is an independent young man, studies at the automotive department of the Polytechnic University in Kremenchug and is not eager to go to Kiev.

How did Kiev appear in your history?

Once a friend called me, once she also worked on the radio in Kremenchug, and then she married a Moscow DJ and moved to Kiev. She said that one of the metropolitan radio stations could not find a co-host for the morning show. I thought: does this happen to everyone? Who is this person who will not accept such an offer? And I went to the casting and passed it successfully. I had a similar story with casting on television. I heard about a new project at STB, I came to the competition, and for almost a year now I have been running the TV magazine “Everything will be good”, so Kiev is like my own for me today.

Was it easy for you to leave your son and husband in Kremenchug?

I did not leave for Kiev with a light heart, but inspired by the fact that I had a new job. My husband agreed that I take part in the casting. I think deep down he hoped that I would not go. But we agreed: I start to work, I get used to it, and then he will come. The son at that time was already studying at the institute. He said: "Mom, you can't refuse, go!"

Does he follow your progress?

It's not really his format. It happens that I tell him a joke from the air, he comments: "Mom, you are Petrosyan!" (Laughs) But, on the other hand, it would be strange if a young twenty-year-old man who is fond of boxing and cars, in parallel, was interested in a women's television magazine ... Different "weight categories". As a child, in response to my offer to try himself on the radio, he shrugged his shoulders: "Am I going to sit and play into the microphone?" He doesn't think this is a man's job. But when his acquaintances say that they saw me on TV, I notice that he is bursting with pride.

Do you follow competing programs?

There is not enough time now. A beginner just needs to do this. It is good that ideas and forces for their implementation come from within, but besides this, it is important to absorb someone else's positive experience from the outside. Personally, I am inspired by the work of the best presenters. Colleagues - Dima Tankovich, Lilya Rebrik,. I look for inspiration not only in people, but also in books and movies. I always strive, no matter how late I return from filming, to devote some time to myself. It is extremely important for me to feel like an independent person, including from work, albeit dearly loved.

Today you quoted beautiful lines about how important it is for a person to strive to fly. What makes you feel like flying today?

There has always been a question of benefit in my life. Before, I often wondered: I work on the radio, do I benefit? Whether it's a profession - doctor, teacher, baker. To which my wise husband replied: "The benefits can be of different levels and in different areas." The desire to be useful has driven me all my life. Now I am sure that I am doing a useful job - I give people a good mood and inspire them to do good things. And I enjoy it, and it gives me the feeling of flight!

07:33 23.01.2015

In yesterday's release of the program "All will be good" TV presenter Nadezhda Matveeva admitted that she had been living and working under a pseudonym for several years. Having moved from Kremenchug to Kiev, Matveeva changed her name, hoping that it would help her cope with difficulties in a new place.

One day my mother told me a family story that I could not remember, although I was a member of it. Even before I was six months old, I became very ill - croupous pneumonia at that time was an almost fatal diagnosis. In one of the hospitals where my mother and I were lying, there was a doctor - a young man who wanted to strengthen himself so much as a professional that he literally gave all his strength to save me, a little girl. And he succeeded. When this happened, everyone breathed a sigh of relief, and the grandmother said: "I should have called her Nadya." For several months my parents called me Nadia, but then they again began to call me by the name that was given from birth.

When my mother reminded me of this situation, I had an insight: if I was then able, still a little, not understanding anything, to overcome such a terrible problem and continue living, maybe this name - Nadia - will help me again do something that I am without I can’t make this name? And when I arrived in Kiev, I began to call myself Nadia. And all the people who met me in this city know me as Hope. And according to my passport, I am Lyudmila.

According to the TV presenter, changes came to her life with the name Nadezhda, and she herself changed - she became more decisive and confident that "all good things will happen." “I think the strength to believe in it is in my name Nadezhda,” said Matveyeva.